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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
2 points

Yo this is too real. Am 19 and I feel my stutter is getting worse or not really improving. Just started new job a couple months ago and was the same, scared shitless wasn't going to be able to talk to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

I used to feel like this, and as soon as I learned proper habits (eliminated that unhelpful deep breath), I am able to talk all the time, say what I want, and how I want!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

You should tell the interviewer that you can't do up counter or any talking and reason why is you get real nervous and freeze up whenever you're talking to ppl. I did that at my first job I applied at...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

Got it, but I feel like when talking in normal convos any word with P just takes 10 secs to come out. Should I say this before talking or smthn...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

>"Don't rely on thoughts/feelings to move the speech muscles" This is my attempt to explain the above phrase more clearly: Acknowledge (and understand) that there is nothing that we need to increas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

>*"Don't rely on thoughts/feelings to move the speech muscles"* This is my attempt to explain the above phrase more clearly: If we feel a certain amount of *fear of failure*, or we don't feel enou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

This is my attempt to explain this more clearly: The goal of this strategy, is unlearning stuttering so that we eventually don't need to implement tricks/techniques or monitoring - to move the speech...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

Perfect way of thinking about it. Stuttering is an avoidance problem. The more speaking a person does in spite of fear the less stuttering over time. Imagine a warrior charging onward no matter wha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

Je prends Propanolol 20 mg une heure avant un évènement où je dois parler en public et tout se passe bien. J'ai eu tort de pratiquer durant des dizaines d'anées le bégaiement masqué....

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

I have the same issue as you You probably have a speech disorder called “ cluttering “ It differs from stuttering The characteristics of cluttering are talking very fast,, mixing up words and skip...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

Find other times in your life where you use unnecessary speed - start with reading and writing on Reddit. Try to slow down in other situations, and eventually, your brain will begin to learn this new...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

Yeah I'm the same, always have been, I can talk to myself nice and slowly and calm, but hell, when I speak to anyone, family or strangers I just speak so fast no-one understands me, yet in my he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
7 points

My advice is that the problem isn't in W, stop being conscious about words Because there will be times where you can speak all words fluently and also there will be times when you're too uncomfortabl...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
5 points

Exactly. Pretty much the same reason why a job as a translator might also work out if you don't have associated trauma with a different language. I think ATC is a no go for stutterers. Or being on the...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

As always, you bring up excellent questions!!! >*"If that's the case how can I prevent my defensive mechanism from acting?"* **In my humble opinion:** **Ideas for addressing the high defensive mech...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

Basically use lee Lovett methods without using his techniques/clutches - the only way I know is positive affirmations to achieve subconscious fluency...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 15, 2024
3 points

Need Advice from Professionals

Need Advice from Professionals Hy, I am in my 20s. I have Stutter but I figured it out myself that it is because, I can't remin calm and speak fast which leads to blockage and horrible stutter. I am d...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
7 points

I think voice acting isn't that bad because people who do that get into character mode and probably don't stutter as much. Also they have to do many takes of the same lines so you'd get used to saying...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
5 points

I've been a bartender for the past eight years. I've turned my stutter into part of my usual spiel with new regulars....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
3 points

Damn English is my second language as well and it feels like a torture for me to even think about being a translator xD...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution