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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

Negative self talk won't help you. I'm 43 and I have served in the Army and retired from it. I served over 21 years as a first responder including being a cop all with a stutter. You have to want to b...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

Been there all my life and I'm almost 43. Granted as a child I was 50x worse than now. I was told growing up I couldn't do what I wanted. I served over 15 years in the Army most as a NCO. I served ove...

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
5 points

Boring person

Boring person I’m a boring, non interesting guy that isn’t social due to a stutter. The boring part is just because that is who I am as a person, but the non social part is because of both. I have a h...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
6 points

You don’t achieve permanent fluency but rather temporary fluency. Read books out loud, also the day you stop reading a book expect to stutter more than usual. If you take a break from reading books ex...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
3 points

I mention it when a stutter happens and also make sure I include situations where I’ve spoken in previous workplaces to back myself up when I say my speech never got in the way of my performance. It...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

I cringe when I hear that too… if anything, it’s a reminder that no one is 100% fluent. Usually, when someone says it, they’re just trying to save face quickly. It’s good they have a way to move past ...

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

Service dog for stuttering?

Service dog for stuttering? I am 55F with adult onset of moderate to severe stuttering which began 4-5 months ago. It is felt to be neurogenic or medication induced (potentially medications used to tr...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

Yeah me too, I have it in my CV and my LinkedIn. I'm working on my self acceptance and openly standing to it is an important step for me. If they have a problem with it, they won't invite me to an int...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

I have been an adjunct at a college for \~9 years. 99% great with the pain in the a\*\* 1% who do not come to class, blame me, and roast my speech on their course evals. I am up front on the first day...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
13 points

I do, and use it as an opportunity for self-effacing humor. When I'm introducing myself I'll say something like "and I've stuttered since I was a kid but it only comes up in low-pressure situations l...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

Thank you. Unfortunately I have told him to try and slow down and it didn't work. He was doing the um um um thing but now he gets stuck on words that never gave him a problem before and he seems confu...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
7 points

The word every is really hard to say. I remember I used to say "all the people" instead of "everyone"...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

I feel your pain there. People are full of useless, even harmful advice…. Do I just talk less and less. I just tried calling a University in the area that a has a speech pathology program but I had to...

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

My stutter might be a bless in a way sometimes.

My stutter might be a bless in a way sometimes. I can confess that I am short temperred. I would think that stuttering holding me back with so much, limiting me with job opportunities and more, might ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
3 points

Never, it’s not important. What’s important is your commitment, work ethic, attire, and attitude toward the interview. Nobody cares that you stutter more than you....

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
8 points

which word do you stutter with the most?

which word do you stutter with the most? i started to stutter around age 11 i'm now 19. In the beginning it was only my friends name that i stuttered on cause we had a serious argument or something. B...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
6 points

I did once, and I think it actually made my speech worse. It kinda got in my head and I spoke worse than normal....

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

Can definitely relate to this. I think it’s also important to whom you surround yourself with. You need people who don’t judge you for your stutter as the only way in my experience anyway that you i...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
3 points

I,m 18M and the things you mentioned in your post are the exact same thing that will happen to me in future and how hard or impossible it is going to be for to find a girl who understands me and Best ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
3 points

I agree truly. As someone who's also outgoing I try to engage with every conversation and like you said it looks like I'm having stroke. Sometimes I wish I could communicate telepathically or via text...

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