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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
3 points

I had someone say this to me recently, and I spent a bit of time mulling it over. I try not to get hung up about stuttering as much now a days, but I did think "was my stutter that bad when I saw you ...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
2 points

Yeah I usually don’t get hung up on these things but this phrase has just been on my mind lately and I was curious about how other people perceive it. I know that people mean well and try to make me f...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
14 points

I totally agree it’s not a helpful observation. At the same time, I try to avoid getting hung up on the insensitive comments other make about me. Focus on the intention as no one is perfect. In high ...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
10 points

Hii! First of all, I totally know the feeling where you , yourself think there is something wrong with you and you are not normal but YOU ARE TOTALLY NORMAL. There will be people who probably think...

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postr/StutterDec 16, 2021
42 points

What should a librarian do while someone’s stuttering?

What should a librarian do while someone’s stuttering? I work in a busy university library and speak to students with stutters occasionally. While I wait for them to speak, what’s generally the most c...

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commentr/StutterDec 15, 2021
18 points

Congrats!! Never feel ashamed or depressed about something you are dealing with, we all have our struggles and none of us are inferior of one another....

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2021
1 points

I have to agree that therapy is the best choice to try and help you through your trauma. I’m sorry that happened to you people are terrible but we’re not all bad and we’re all here to help you with an...

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Trauma & PsychologicalValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2021
1 points

I really like the message you’re pushing out here that you can gradually become desensitised to rejection but at the end of the day, you at least gave it a go and came out of your comfort zone bit by ...

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Validation & EmpathyVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 10, 2021
45 points

I love this sub

I love this sub Literally one of my favourite subs because it helps me feel less alone with my (our) condition. Hope everyone has a good day/week....

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
6 points

Really proud of you! I just had a presentation last week in my uni as well so yes it can be very nerve wracking. All the more reason to be proud of you...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
3 points

thank you, thankfully i do have a few friends who have stopped making fun of my stutter...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
4 points

Know you have a community here that loves you and understands what you're going through. I know it probably doesn't help you to hear that these people are idiots and won't survive in the adult world w...

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Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
5 points

Hey, so I will say that when I was in grade school the teasing and mocking was bad, but it will lessen as you get older in high school and college and beyond. I'm sorry you're having to deal with tha...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
1 points

Yes!!! I feel your struggle. Seems like we have the same degree of stuttering too....

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

Speech therapy helps; support helps more. Support happens when you gather with others who stutter. If there is not a way to do this where you are, go to stuttersocial.com and join an online group...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

I am very lucky with my class, they are calm about the fact that I stutter...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
2 points

Yes, I did Toastmasters early in my career (for the same reasons you describe) and it really helped me. Didn’t cure me of course but greatly helped my fluency both in business and personal. As a bonu...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Public SpeakingHope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
4 points

That's awesome to hear.I think lot of Woman just look for our job, education level , soft spoken nature,may be good looking that's it. These women also does the talking when they introduce us to their...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
1 points

I would say it’s more rare that two people who stutter date each other, rather than a stutterer dating in general. It’s more difficult maybe in some circumstances but not everyone’s a shallow turd lol...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
1 points

Why did people downvote me? I also stutter. Need to know the pros atleast guys...

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