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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
4 points

This is a lot. It sounds like she has been enabled by letting people do the hard work for her (making phone calls, setting appointments, etc). She is never going to change if this continues. “Growth h...

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Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
40 points

Okay, I have a few comments to make about this. First, I understand your frustration, and I'll give you some grace regarding your wording here. However, I have to point out that you don't come acros...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

It's completely valid that you're fed up; watching someone you love surrender to their struggles for years is a draining and heart-wrenching experience, and your frustration is a sign that you care de...

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postr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

It doesnt hit alot but when it does damn.

It doesnt hit alot but when it does damn. I can normally keep a good outlook on it but i met someone and they are really special, the mental damage this stutter has caused throughout the years shying ...

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postr/StutterNov 17, 2025
15 points

Getting very tired of my partner using her stutter as an excuse for everything.

Getting very tired of my partner using her stutter as an excuse for everything. My partner and I (30M, 29F) live in the UK have been together for about 3 years now. She developed the stutter after a c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
2 points

Story of my life. I feel like I’m a pretty smart dude even smarter than most. But when you can’t convey your words properly people think down on you. There’s thousands of things I want to stay to peop...

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Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

It happens similarly to me. There are days when I talk pretty decently, and other days, I talk like crap, lol. I come down to not talking as much lately, and my talking regresses (I'm currently in thi...

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Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

Whatever works, works. We don’t really get to choose how we adapt but we gotta get through everyday and that’s enough, the thought of the constant mental battle and every social interaction feels like...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

dud, I get where you're at but your kind of being a baby about this. Your ten to fifteen second delay is only the problem you make it to be, I bet your not assertive about the fact that you need a lit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

Yes, I’ve felt the same. My stutter makes me feel like I lose authority, and it limits how firmly I can insist on or persuade others about decisions that benefit my goals. I know I’m smart and sharp -...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

It made me face adversities that speech fluent people don't have to struggle with. That made me strong which made me successful. Some silver lining I guess....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
5 points

Yes. I have so many opinions and stories, but I can't tell them because I have to worry about every word. Without my stutter, I would have been more outgoing and talkative ...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
1 points

This gives me a bit of hope as I am a new grad in healthcare and interviewing is making me go insane due to my stutter. I’m beginning to feel hopeless and filled with anxiety daily worrying if I can f...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

This post literally saved my life. Things have been incredibly difficult with my stutter in the past few years. I’ve lost my job and can’t get a new one because I bomb all my interviews. Even though I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

You didnt understand. Example: l seeing girl and l want talk. But l can't okay. This is'nt about study. This about be lover boy...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
4 points

You can stop blaming yourself without giving up on yourself. It's not your fault and your situation is definitely not because you didn't work hard enough. But it's also not true that you haven't no ab...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
4 points

Yeah, I kinda created a whole another persona online. People actually like me there, understand me. But the cost of it is that I'm starting to place my online persona above the irl one. I just stoppe...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
7 points

Sadly for most of us stuttering has far greater mental consequences than just the fact of stuttering....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
8 points

Look, I have a bad stutter (blocks). I’ve had many nights where I cried myself to sleep cause of how many opportunities I didn’t take cause of my stutter. However I never tried to let that affect my ...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

I (53), and others, have succeeded despite our severe stutters. Sure, I missed out on some amazing opportunities, but I still found a way to achieve almost all of my goals in some notable capacity. I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency