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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

I'm curious to know some of the struggles that you have deal with as a woman who stutters. I have a few friends who are female who stutter and they told me that one issue is that men don't take them s...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Based on the survey I recently ran, women are 1.2x as common on this sub as they "should be" based on the percentage of women on reddit in general and the number of female stutterers. I agree that we ...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
10 points

Right, I feel like some of the men in this sub seem to think that stuttering is the one thing holding them back from being an alpha male. I'm sure if they didn't stutter they would find something else...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
6 points

Hey, 32F here! I do think women are overlooked in this sub, I've even noticed that when someone makes a post that includes no mention of their gender the commenters often assume that OP is male. Sure,...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
4 points

I'm 22f and I stutter! My dating life was decent but I honestly think that's because im 5ft so it makes my stutter "cute". But being 5ft with a stutter also means I don't get taken serious out in th...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

I like the cut off your jib. My fluency has drastically improved over the years and a bit of stoicism and acceptance has improved my confidence and attitude. My career has been a struggle because I fe...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
-8 points

No I don’t felt like this sub excludes women. And the comments here prove it. Men are more common stutterers so that your answer. Stop blaming men for stuff....

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postr/StutterMar 5, 2024
6 points

Stammering and selective mutism.

Stammering and selective mutism. Is there any relation between stammering and selective mutism ? I have selective mutism more than stammering. When someone ask my name or in my introduction i get com...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I'm glad to hear that you've come to realize your opinions were harmful and dismissive and that you were open to changing that. Even taking dating aside since that has been covered, stuttering can b...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
7 points

25F, moderate stutter, engaged. I've stuttered since I was little and have never met another female stutterer. I find that it not being as common in woman makes strangers more unintentionally cruel...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
-5 points

> I also agree that most of the things that make us feel excluded, are not intended to, yet they do. So would you rather the male-POV posts that make the handful of you feel excluded not get posted a...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

Sorry I thought you were talking about the severity level. It's true that 4 times more men stutter than women. When you said men stutter way more than women do, I thought you were saying that female s...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
-2 points

Are you sure about that? I've met way more men that stutter than I have women. And I remember a study claiming that men out number women when it comes to stuttering....

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

This isn't true or a known fact. Just saying. The severity of one's stutter doesn't correlate with gender. I've seen other female stutterers with worse stutters or even the same severity as mine....

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

Hey, so sorry you feel this way. You're right we should understand and know better. I think most guys on here can't imagine another guy rejecting a girl because of her stutter. The idea seems prepos...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
4 points

I feel like you’re trying to comfort OP, this comment is pretty dismissive though. You are trying to logically explain why we shouldn’t feel how we feel. You’re right, that most posts here aren’t con...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
-8 points

No, but women don't stutter as much as men, sooo.......

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
6 points

28M here. I'm sorry you feel this way. This subreddit isn't suppsoed to exclude others and should be a place where no longer feel alone in their struggles. Thank you posting this and I thank all the o...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

>I will say that dating apps generally seem to have more men on them than women, so it seems like the odds for men are worse to begin with - and the stutter just makes it harder. Thank you for pointi...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
6 points

The “this is only for men” posts are kind of pointless, because it just excludes what is already such a minority. This isn’t a massive subreddit where an OP would have to sift through hundreds of comm...

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