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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

I’m the Same. Exact. Way, my brother. I think we gotta seek/focus on social anxiety therapy BEFORE going deep into speech therapy. I can learn all type of speech techniques but I’ve realized it’s more...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
6 points

I know what you mean. I stutter less with girls but it still happens. It really sucks seeing girls come up to you looking excited and interested then you stutter and you can just see them lose interes...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
9 points

Mind if I ask who the comedian was? Same thing happened to me when I saw Jeff Arcuri. He’s known for his crowd work and they sat me dead center in front of him and of course he goes right for me. I di...

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Personal StoriesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

Bro honestly you sound like me when you explained that in detail. Because I’ve been telling people that same thing and they never understood what I was trying to say. It’s like, when I’m around my fam...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

I do. They always say a bunch of stuff I already knew. I’m already very knowledgeable about psychology and stuff like that. Because I never used to fit in so I used to read up and watch videos on it a...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
6 points

We are similar in the sense I stutter profusely with my family (specifically parents) and am almost 95% fluent with my friends. Funny you also mentioned a "masked version". I can relate a lot to that....

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
2 points

Not to say that stuttering isn’t contributing but I think you need to see a therapist about this. Not a speech therapist, but one for trauma and talking about your anxiety....

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
5 points

Yep. This is exactly me. Like my mom…I love her. But she has no idea what it feels like to stutter and she doesn’t even want to understand it. It’s like she thinks I’m slow or dumb or some shi. She’s ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
7 points

I noticed with mine it’s basically all social anxiety, I’m so worried that I’ll stammer that I end up thinking about it and doing it, but when I’m by myself I’m basically fluent, I found being confide...

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postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
12 points

Feel like I’m holding myself back with women

Feel like I’m holding myself back with women I’ve had a stutter since I was 5. And didn’t talk till I was 5. So I’ve been dealing with this hyper vigilance and anxiety since then. But every now and th...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
52 points

So I had the brilliant idea of sitting in front at a comedy show...

So I had the brilliant idea of sitting in front at a comedy show... I guess in hindsight it shows I don't worry about stuttering much anymore because I didn't even think about the possibility of this ...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
45 points

Uh.

Uh. So I had to call in sick today as I have a bad migraine/vomiting, I hate phone calls and I block on my name and the person who answered it was real rude and said "what you don't know who you are?"...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

I recently joined Toastmasters, went to two meetings so far. I really like it and yes it definitely helps to expand your comfort zone and reduce your fear of public speaking. For me it also helps me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
1 points

Yep. For me stuttering is directly tied to my confidence so people whose opinion I care about I stutter more in front of. It’s not ideal 😂...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
1 points

When I recently started Uni my stutter got a lot worse. I can’t even say a sentence without it taking 10+ seconds. I even feel anxious talking with my own family. I keep thinking about my future. It f...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
0 points

Yes, my self-confidence was destroyed by always feeling inferior leading to frustration, anxiety, and depression despite having a successful marriage and parenting. Depersonalization definitely fits....

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
1 points

Hi, are you on prozac until now? Can you please tell me the results? I don't stutter when I'm alone, or reading book aloud alone, or even when I'm talking to specific people. So I think it's anxiety, ...

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Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 29, 2024
3 points

My mom ruined my confidence in a way/ Yappathon

My mom ruined my confidence in a way/ Yappathon I want to explain this in full detail. So I apologize if I type too much for you guys to read. Quick disclaimer, I am developmentally delayed and autis...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
1 points

That is true. The idea is to push out comfort zones and challenge speech anxiety in a controlled safe space. It's hard to challenge your fear, but it's worth it!...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2024
1 points

>You can phone/video call other members. Um, wouldn't most stutterers prefer to cut off an appendage with a dull butter knife?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
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