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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
2 points

I feel your pain. I'm also struggling a lot when presenting but recently zoom classes got me to experiment little bit. I found myself doing best when totally ignoring the presence of listeners. During...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
5 points

I have the same kind of stutter as you where I just can’t get anything out. Thankfully I have found ways to control it and it’s gotten noticeably better. I’m a drummer and started taking lessons abo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterJul 1, 2021
8 points

Does anyone else question if the way you hear yourself is the same way everyone else hears you?

Does anyone else question if the way you hear yourself is the same way everyone else hears you? Today I had to make a very important phone call. I was on hold for 45 minutes. I was finally connected ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

Agreed. I just came from a program that taught us not to stutter though and one of those things is recognizing the pressure you can tolerate so you don’t go gung ho and stutter a lot. You take increme...

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Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

But the words I choose make them want to question more. I try all the techniques that I could but I somehow end up feeling drained and frustrated....

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Frustration & AngerOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
1 points

Yeah I might have focused too much on delivery and not much on content that's what caused me to panic. I'll try everything I can to get out of this hole I'm in after that whole scenario. Thank you so ...

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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
1 points

I'm sorry you went through this shit too. It's really hard to deal with such setback. It'll take a bit longer than a week bc I overthink a lot but I'm gonna be better. Thank you for the advice...

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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
1 points

That’s crazy. I’ve learned that being aware of what You can tolerate speech wise can really help. It’s crazy because you know this could happen but still pursue something (like thesis work) that coul...

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Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
3 points

So you don't stutter at all? You just think about it?...

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Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
7 points

This is profound. I have pondered on this so many times. I become so self aware about my thoughts that it’s crippling. Not just from a stuttering pov but about everything. Sometimes things get so meta...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
2 points

Yea we have some good answers here. But overall just desensitizing myself to my stutter was extremely hard and I felt like I could only do it when I had short burst of motivation and then I would di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
2 points

It’s good that you are aware of it and try working on it. I find myself too unintentionally doing it every now and then. When I was first told about it, I would have what I want to say in my head. Wo...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
1 points

I second this, I feel as though for me, it's also the reminder that tons of people could be then watching the vid once uploaded online that it's an imaginary audience in the sense to really 'impress'...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
3 points

Something interesting is that I dont stutter alone ‘talking to myself’, but I stutter alone ‘if I am recording myself’! (Audio or video). It is about anxiety and/or how we see ourselves....

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
1 points

Could you expand a bit? I’ve always dreamed of becoming a fighter pilot but worried my stutter would hold me back. I feel like the technical aspect would be doable (I’m a 4th year mechanical engineeri...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
4 points

I'm a stage performer, and ever since I was young I realized that I don't stutter on stage. It's still hard to say why that is. If I try to picture my daily conversations like something I would say o...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceSituational VariabilityOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2021
2 points

happens to the best of us man i know the feeling. you should not think about it too much that u may stutter before u talk i find myself stuttering when i think about what i say. You said at the end it...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2021
1 points

Yah man sometimes we think too much of our stutter I too have a moderate stutter and when I think about it I stutter more for eg if there is a phone call i have to make I'll keep on thinking about w...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2021
1 points

Definitely agree with you there. But it’s hard to speak spontaneously in a group setting when you naturally are thinking about what to say next during a group convo....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2021
9 points

This one. I can often say something without stuttering, but make me repeat it and for some reason, despite just saying it without any issues, I fumble over ever word....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations