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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
2 points

I hate when people who are fluent slip up and stutter on a word and are like “whoops I did a Claire.” Stuttering is not a joke or an accidental one time slip up. I think about every sentence, every si...

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commentr/StutterNov 22, 2018
1 points

ProTip: Tell your interviewers that you stutter at the beginning of the inerview. I always did that in interviews and was way more fluent than I would have been if I didn't do so. Plus once they kno...

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2018
2 points

It's also a verbal way to give yourself permission to stutter. You're putting it out there and it's not this awkward unspoken thing. And shows your employer you're comfortable. It's good for a variety...

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2018
1 points

If you were a woman, black, or an amputee, your interviewer would immediately know what was up with that, with no confusion and no need to ask. If you were gay it would be none of their business to kn...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2018
1 points

I’ve totally been in your shoes, just graduated college. The first interview is always the worst. Mine was terrible but every one gets better (excluding external factors, like if the interviewers are ...

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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2018
4 points

Tell them you stutter up front. Also you can search for similar threads on this subreddit. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2018
7 points

Yes. I never really tell people I stutter outright - when I feel like its necessary, like if I'm stuttering a ton, I explain that I do have a stutter and I'm not having a stroke. I was telling a story...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2018
1 points

Man I feel you so much in this post. The thing that helped me was just telling people I stutter and getting it out of my way and theirs too. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
1 points

I can totally relate. What I do is when I meet someonenew I tell them I have a stutter. I feel like when people laugh it's not because they are trying to be huge disks but they are uncomfortable ...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
1 points

That's what's up. I've ran into a few other ppl who stutters and I've never mentioned it cuz I thought it would be awkward. I didnt wanna make em uncomfortable...but this interaction gives me hope tha...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2018
2 points

I sometimes get fellow stutterers calling in to the call centre I work at. My stuttering mostly comes in the forms of facial ticks and occasional hangs on certain words at random. I normally don't eve...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
1 points

In college, whenever I had to give a speech, I would always say, “Pardon me, but I do stutter,” and people would be fine with it. Sometimes if I’m talking to a girl, I’ll make a cute game out of it, a...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2018
5 points

Yes, the voluntary stuttering was something I learned in speech therapy as a young adult. It was very difficult for me, and my speech pathologist had me practice, say do it 3 times a week with people ...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2018
1 points

I'd advise to review the comments and to trust your gut on this call - we weren't in the room and can't pick up on the vibe of the interview. My family runs a HR firm specializing in recruitment and ...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
5 points

I'm somewhat surprised it didn't come up in the interview. I don't think you should tell them in your thank you note. Do you think your stutter isn't noticeable? Why do you think you should tell them?...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
3 points

For me it made the whole difference. You might be shocked to find out how much of the anxiety comes from that desire to hide the stutter or to avoid stuttering in order to not look "weird". Once it's ...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
3 points

Mentioning that I have a stutter will certainly take a bit of the pressure off, it's a good idea. I think this is especially helpful in certain environments. For other environments like clubbing where...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
3 points

The humour thing is definitely not mandatory, I sometimes do it when I feel like it (or when doing stand-up comedy) but not all the time. Regarding mentioning it though -here is my own experience: I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
6 points

I'm not going to turn my stutter into a joke, I'm not into that. I don't mention my stutter to new people either. I let them figure it out and/or they can ask me about the way I speak, and I'll be ha...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
4 points

I understand, and I have been through what you are describing. Stuttering significantly impacted my self-confidence for so long. The social anxiety resulting from having to deal with a stutter was als...

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