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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
9 points

That’s nice. One thing: what do you mean about “educate”. Also idk if there’s also someone else like me but i literally hate to talk about my stutter with anyone let alone with a girl who I’m dati...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 24, 2021
17 points

Majorly Down & Depressed

Majorly Down & Depressed Sorry for such a negative first post but I feel so down due to my stammering at the moment. I am able to hide it fairly well in day to day life but there are days when it'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2021
1 points

Thank you really, i'm still figuring stuff out currently, i need to cut unhealthy habits of coping with my demons before those unhealthy habits turn to unhealthy addictions down the line, benzos are m...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2021
1 points

I'm 22 and I get that shit all the time !! I look like I'm 16 though.. pisses me off lol...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2021
2 points

Honey I'm 30 and I still get that alot. After a while you'll get used to it. It helps that your friend group and coworkers respect you as their equals once they get to know you and figure out that you...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2021
5 points

Yes, I have a masters degree. And whenever people first talk to me they talk to me like a baby, then I explain to them I have a masters degree I work in tech... their tone quickly change....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2021
17 points

A few years back, I was in line at the grocery store. A woman in her early 20s was the cashier. I had some blocking, and she tells me in a slow voice, the way you would talk to a toddler, "use your...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2021
14 points

I am 21 and people don't take me seriously at all and there is that one librarian who misunderstood my stutter and thought that I am deaf. That was my shittiest experience so far....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
7 points

Similar to you. I feel like it’s almost backhanded, and it makes me feel like there’s something seriously wrong with me when there isn’t, and that I’m like a child. I get that it’s made with good inte...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
1 points

Thats actually rlly good advice! I m starting to take it easy ( i ve been way harsh to mself) , cause when i stutter i usually get angry at myself “damn itt, just say it”. It is so sad that i m just ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
10 points

Hii! First of all, I totally know the feeling where you , yourself think there is something wrong with you and you are not normal but YOU ARE TOTALLY NORMAL. There will be people who probably think...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2021
14 points

Sorry to say I'm 58, stammered as long back as I can remember, all the things you've described have, and still are the story if my life.. I personally hate the embarrassment of my stutter, alway...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2021
2 points

My best experience was asking for a menu and stuttering in the word "a" menu so it was like "a a a a aa a.... a a aa". The woman said "oh hehe it doesnt go out" and i said "oh no it doesnt heheeehehe"...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2021
1 points

When my mother catches me stuttering she tells me to stop because it means I'm not smart....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2021
1 points

I am exactly the same!! it's been a source of anxiety for me for years, and like someone else mentioned, I'd go to great lengths to avoid first day of classes introduction stuff, certain restaurants t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2021
2 points

I’m going through the same thing at the moment. When I block my face gets really distorted and my eyes sometimes rapidly blink and it isn’t a pretty sight lol. I also experience that out of body disso...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Physical TensionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 16, 2021
6 points

Advice

Advice I've had some mild difficulty when it comes to speaking but it was like very mild, I didn't have stuttering but sometimes I would speak very fast and in a cluttered manner which made it kind o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2021
4 points

I often have a really annoying block on my name. Especially when introducing myself. It is soul-crushing if I let it get to me. smh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2021
2 points

I once used the word ‘totes in a serious conversation at uni because of this and it haunts me to this day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2021
1 points

Don't be ashamed that you are a stutterer. I know how it feels inside; you always have this thought of people will be judging or ridicule us because we stutter. Tell your professor that you have a stu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others