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postr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
33 points

I would rather be poor and not have a stutter and have friends rather than live the current life I'm living which is being born into a rich family but have a severe stutter and no friends

I would rather be poor and not have a stutter and have friends rather than live the current life I'm living which is being born into a rich family but have a severe stutter and no friends For context,...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
3 points

You are right. We self criticize ourselves even more than oir listeners....

commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

Whattttt you're 74 may I know from which age stuttering started for you and how did you managed these years becaz it's very long period...

Speech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

I have only ever met one girl who stuttered in my life. I would much prefer one that doesnt. It makes life alot easier. There would be times she would step in on a conversation or take the lead whe...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Dating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

Well, a lot of people judge themselves. We live feeling the expectations that other people have on us and if we don't accomplish them we feel bad. But i guess that if you stutter it goes worst...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

No one stutters when they sing. It’s because you’re using your diaphragm when you sing. A speech therapy technique called costal breathing teaches people to speak using the same breathing pattern you ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Situational VariabilityFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
10 points

I'm glad you feel that way. Now stop blaming us for the way stuttering has been stigmatized. I never cared about my stutter until people made me care....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

One of my favorite song lyrics is "Your hate means nothing, I hate myself more."...

commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
-1 points

99% of the people who see you stutter are supportive of you or couldn't care less how you talk. It's only a tiny few dickheads who push their own insecurities onto you with insults. The problem is yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
5 points

Bro I’m here to tell you you’re not alone. I stand by you knowing exactly how you feel, just know you are not a bad or some fucked up subhuman get that out of your mind. You have to look at it as mos...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

I wonder exactly the same thing. I think that they are putting everything into Tourette's research. And if it works indirectly, it could help with stuttering. I don't see any other explanation....

Causes & Variability
Neurological & Brain
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
5 points

Give yourself some grace. We are hardest on ourselves....

postr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
15 points

Coming off disrespectul

Coming off disrespectul My mom raised me with good manners and my heart and soulalways know the right response but its so frustrating man when i block on saying thank you so much when people hold the ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentRepetitions & ProlongationsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
8 points

I am though. I hate this rhetoric that we're so hard on ourselves for no reason and that we create our own problems. Try stuttering freely around people and see how you start to get avoided or trea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

Take it easy. Relax. You don't helping yourself its whole overthinking and blaming. Try to accept your stuttering. You may never get rid of it, that's okay. And it's not fatal. Stuttering is mostly c...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

Definitely try to limit carb/sugar intake and see if it helps. Even smaller portions seem to help me have better days. Working at a bakery isn't going to make that an easy task....

Causes & Variability
Energy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

That's an interesting way to think about it, though I wonder if focusing too much on the stutter part might overshadow everything else that makes a relationship work. I know plenty of people in the st...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

i'm really sorry you're going through this rough patch. The unpredictability of stuttering can be one of the most mentally exhausting parts, especially when you're doing everything right and it still ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

this actually sounds like a really interesting case, especially since your own SLP said the traditional techniques don't apply to your pattern. The fact that you're fluent under high pressure but bloc...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Seeking TherapyAnticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
3 points

I have stuttered my whole life. My brother stutters, mom did for a short time, I have two uncles that also stutter. My fear was one of my four children would also. I had one son that did. It was bad w...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsOnset & Life-Stage ChangesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more