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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
2 points

You should tell the teacher. It's only fair he knows your situation. What he ends up doing with this information is up to him. We would expect a decent teacher to not penalize you for something yo...

Social & RelationshipsParent & Caregiver
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool/Clinical Advocacy
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
4 points

I've always found if I can let people know I stutter beforehand or as soon as possible it's way better. I have a best man speech a few years ago and opened with it and it made it not a big deal...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
2 points

I would either say before you begin or find some way to allow them to know before hand. If these are competent oral examiners with experience then they should be aware of stuttering as a uncontrollabl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
4 points

So you've never told them that you have a stutter? That sounds rough on you....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
3 points

What's a "viva"? :) But yeah, sure, inform people if it makes you feel better. "Symphathy marks" should not be a concern of yours. You don't even have to mention it if it doesn't come up, but you can...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterApr 20, 2019
12 points

Is advertising your stutter before a viva acceptable?

Is advertising your stutter before a viva acceptable? I stutter wayyy less when if the person I'm taking to knows I stutter. Otherwise I end up trying my best to hide it which surprise surprise! just ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2019
1 points

You can’t get rid of your stutter. Yeah, I know, it sucks, we all wish we /could/ speak fluently, but that’s why we’re all on r/stutter, isn’t it?? Your speech impediment needs to be something you can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2019
2 points

Ya GOTTA make jokes about it. Your speech impediment needs to be something you can laugh at (instead of something you’re ashamed of and/or trying to hide). I learned to /own/ my stutter by introducin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2019
1 points

I would tell the professor beforehand, maybe at their office hours. Ask your professor if you can go first. You don’t want to be sitting and waiting letting the anxiety build. There is something to be...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2019
2 points

I joke about it in client presentations whenever I have to present a longer script or something that requires a lot of reading. If I start getting stuck I'll usually hand it off to a colleague while j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2019
2 points

Do you disclose your stuttering before the start of the interview? That always helped me....

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2019
2 points

Disclosing

Disclosing I’ve never disclosed before and I have 2 presentations coming up in my classes (college student). What do I say?? I am so anxious about it, I don’t know how to go about disclosing that I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2019
4 points

I stutter over my name really badly. It's just one of those words unfortunately. So when I give presentations at work, I typically throw up an image of the waterboy and explain my situation in a light...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterApr 11, 2019
5 points

Does anyone have/make jokes about their stutters?

Does anyone have/make jokes about their stutters? I heard someone talk about joking about their stutter when introducing it to new people to not make it awkward, anyone have good lines they use?...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
3 points

But you can't hide the stutter either so you might as well disclose the elephant in the room. I've had nothing but positive experiences after disclosing it in and it has boosted my confidence....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
1 points

I've pondered over this quite a bit. My only worry is that in a profession like law, would the employer respond positively to such disclosure?...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2019
3 points

Omg I do EXACTLY this!! I have close friends that will 'help' me speak if it gets bad by saying the word for me. If someone wants to finish my sentence and it's not meant maliciously please go ahead...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2019
1 points

1. Own your stutter. Don't try to hide it. Tell people about it....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
8 points

This is a HUGE step. I don’t know you, but I am so proud of you! I hope that you’ll continue your efforts to become comfortable telling new people that you stutter, because that will open so many door...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
18 points

This is exactly why I encourage people to disclose before a presentation or interview. Very happy to hear you had a great time and did a fantastic job! ​ Now imagine if you hadn't disclos...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation