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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
5 points

Network Engineer. When I was in my 20's I had a lot of limiting beliefs about what stutterers could do for jobs. Took me a while to realize anything was possible. Turns out you can even be President....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
2 points

First I think no matter what happens, we have to put ourselves first. I was there,I used to value myself based on how anyone would treat me. Second is I always say " Why God is not allowing me to spe...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationMindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
1 points

Some people don't care, others care a great deal. Never forget if we had been in Germany in the 40s we would be put to death. Some will see us as Sub-human and or defective. They will never respect us...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
2 points

mild but used to be severe a couple years back, i’ve just eased myself into making friends and at least slightly built my confidence. Sometimes it comes back in full force though, which makes me lose ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
7 points

It’s so difficult sometimes I feel like quitting especially since my family doesn’t understand but I keep going because I have to. I know you can do it and I’m rooting for you...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
10 points

I respect you for doing things that involve talking to people. Maybe one day I will find that strength too....

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
3 points

>we, no matter how intelligent we are, cannot I understand you may have had bad dating experiences, but this is simply untrue. Right now I'm single, but I've been in two serious relationships and da...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
3 points

Well done for reaching out because stuttering is a difficult problem to have. You are not alone. Get the support that you need and stay strong. ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
8 points

Omg. I’m SO sorry! I just feel like I wanna run & give you a hug rn! I def agree w/ some other people; definitely can see a lawsuit, that is if you feel comfortable...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
5 points

You are challenging the bullshit algorithm of online dating. All is good and well on paper/superficial questionnaires for us all. Anyone who has a problem with your stutter never had any business (nor...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
3 points

Hey there Aidan, I too attended HCRI last summer, if I remember correctly I was in the second to last class they offered. I will be entering my third year of university this coming semester. Similar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

I’m so glad it went well! I hope this experience helps you build confidence for future dates. You got this...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
9 points

Hey now. Don’t put yourself down. Dating is hard for everyone for different reasons. For us our stutter is definitely a roadblock. I was the same but I eventually found someone when I wasn’t even look...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

God made man with certain imperfections that man needs to work on fixing. He also only gives us what we can handle. It may be hard, but if we have it, we can handle/overcome it....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
4 points

I was in a relationship 3 years back and I thought she would be my life partner and I was in an imaginary world where we were together. But things change and now I'm okay with what happened. We've to ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

And yes it was excruciating - every post in here (so 95%) are all super depressive and negative questions etc well I understand why obviously lol it feels that bad til it’s gone then poof. U can focus...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
28 points

It cannot stop me!!

It cannot stop me!! No matter how tough things are, I won't let the Stutter stop myself, for now maybe not in the Physical world 🌍, but atleast in the Mental world 🌎, through imagination atleast I c...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

Definitely, it's difficult but yeah we have to cope up with it and try to find the path If you are interested in having a conversation pls let me know ....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
3 points

Not exactly the best kind of guy to give advice in this regard but really since it's so hard for us to have these connections, be it romantic or otherwise, we may overvalue them. I'm not saying what y...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
3 points

Thank you so much for putting this out there better than I could. Despite my stutter, I've had an amazing life. I hope these kinds of positive messages from another stutterer will give hope to others ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career