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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

I think maybe some people laugh when they feel uncomfortable or they laugh because they think we forgot our name or something like that. My mates or family never laugh at me....

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

Speaking as a 44 year old woman who still stutters, dated many men and is now married with two kids, whose father also has a stutter... screw her! :-) I feel that way in my career too....you are bette...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

I am sorry that you experienced this. She could have told you more good facts of yours in order to make you feel hurt ( is it called sandwich technique or something?) Despite you two are not meant to ...

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postr/StutterDec 8, 2025
6 points

I want to say something again...

I want to say something again... I want to say something again… I didn’t expect yesterday’s message to reach so many people. I wasn’t trying to go viral. I was just being honest — something we all fo...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

I need to keep this in mind, it actually helps a lot knowing people think about themselves a lot more than they think about other people. Thank you :)...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
2 points

Do I think less of her for judging you by your stutter? Yes. You don't need somebody like that in your life. Do I think she was rude or critical for telling you? No, you asked. As a matter of fact, i...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

Wtf — nah she’s just mean asl & destined to be miserable; you’ll be fine, just avoid women like her...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
1 points

sucks that happened, sometimes the stutter can be a dealbreaker. nothing to worry about you’re doing great. just keep putting yourself out there :)...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

I don’t think she was rude or out of place at all. I’d be appreciative that she was honest about it. We’re all adults would you rather have her lie and just ghost you? I would be thanked her for being...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

Dont let one bad fish ruin the ocean for you. As a heavy stutterer, I dated many women, and now married to a wonderful woman and have 2 kids....

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

And also, you won’t be lonely. You will find a patient woman that will give you all the time in the world to speak, even on your worst days. I found my person and he’s the most patient man in the worl...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
3 points

Nah you weren’t rude, you returned the energy. You were both open and honest! Bit abrupt of her to say it that way there’s other ways to get your point across without being hurtful. You handled that ...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
5 points

I mean hey atleast she was honest & didn't waste your time 🤷‍♀️..that's the way it goes alot of times for us unfortunately man but don't worry there's girls out there that won't care & will like you ...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
14 points

Atleast she was blunt with you. It's better than getting ghosted and not having any closure. And I don't think she is "immature"... she is just someone who prefers not to deal with a bf who stutters....

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2025
5 points

There are people who care about the stutter and people who don't care at all. One of my exes had a lot of family members who stutter so she was sort of used to it. I've dated other people who also did...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2025
41 points

Nah that was a completely fair reaction on your part, that was really shitty of her. You dodged a bullet for sure...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
3 points

I think it’s okay to have complicated feelings about stuff like this. Even when someone has good intentions, it’s frustrating when you just want to be treated like everyone else and are made to feel l...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
1 points

Sounds like you're just too lazy to put the work in. "Life on Delay" by John Hendrickson is a memoir that delivers hard-won, practical advice for stutterers: Accept permanence. Letting go of the "fl...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

I really enjoyed this book as well. I got to meet John when he attended the NSA conference - he is very down to earth. He participated in a virtual NSA Connects session last year, and it was fun to m...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

Sono una donna straniera che balbetta.. vivo in italia per lavoro... solo ti posso dire che non sei sola ♥...

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