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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

uni will be over in three months. For the past three years, I’ve just been admiring my crush from a distance. I never had the courage to approach her because of my stutter. Why would a beautiful girl ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
5 points

I’ll have to disagree with you on that one not to be an online troll but because I have had many females tell me my stutter is cute and my wife has never once viewed my stutter as a negative. I guess ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
15 points

As a lifelong stutterer with the most caring, loving, amazing wife I could have ever hoped for… listen to OP. Guys, I know it’s tough out there. I know it’s frustrating and discouraging. I know som...

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postr/StutterOct 19, 2025
55 points

To the guys who think they'll never find love because they stutter

To the guys who think they'll never find love because they stutter Hey, I just wanted to share something that’s been on my heart lately. I’ve been reading through this subreddit and I’ve seen a few po...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

It’s not necessarily a principle for me, but I definitely know what your saying. Sometimes I think about stupid shit like being on a date with a girl and stuttering while ordering, and just other stuf...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

You're setting yourself up for unhappiness. That's a 'you' problem. Single life isn't always sad. As an almost lifelong stutterer, I don't understand what it means to 'control' speech. It's a neurolog...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

You'll find someone...don't force it, but also don't just give up. I've been married 25 years, and the few other people I know who stutter are also married....

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postr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

I have this principle that might be wrong

I have this principle that might be wrong I stand with that am never getting into a relationship as long as i dont have control on my speech, like the stutter. Not necessarily stop stuttering but have...

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postr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

Do you have a buddy to talk to when things go bad?

Do you have a buddy to talk to when things go bad? Couple of days ago I had a shift with a new partner, I've known her for a while (even started to develop a small crush on her), but when she arrived ...

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postr/StutterOct 15, 2025
3 points

I need advice please (if I could get a girls opinion that would be amazing)

I need advice please (if I could get a girls opinion that would be amazing) So there’s this girl I like and we’ve known each other for a while now. We just recently started talking again (mostly texti...

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postr/StutterOct 14, 2025
10 points

Bloody Mary | Horror Comedy Short Film about the Horrors of Stuttering

Bloody Mary | Horror Comedy Short Film about the Horrors of Stuttering Hello! My name is Drew Underwood, and as a person with a lifelong stutter, I always felt alienated by my speech impediment, ESPEC...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
2 points

It’s one of the terrible ironies of this thing. We want to talk — and maybe love talking! — but cannot do it fluently. I want to tell stories, jokes, anecdotes… but they are spoiled, or ruined, becaus...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2025
3 points

real friends do stuff for you. my boyfriend usually orders things for me at restaurants and stuff. you just gotta learn to trust someone to that extent...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2025
1 points

Hey can I ask why? Many people say it's possible many say Absolutely Not. Why can't we ever attain fluent speech? Am I gonna be like this forever? Oh I don't want to 😰 I've lost way too much my frie...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

While I don't think you need to find someone attracted to your stutter, personally I've never been a fan of that for more than an ONS, a lot of people find it charming that you engage with them despit...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
0 points

In my experience, it's only a weak point when it comes do dating if you let it be. Own that shit and it'll be attractive, trust me....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

This is true… funny thing is I have a harder time finding jobs to hire me than I do with women. They do not care as long as you have confidence and half decent looks....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
1 points

I don't think you can compare a speech disorder with height/weight. Everyone is entitled to what they like , but applauding a disorder that they themselves would never want is laughable to me. Thanks...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
2 points

Am I the only one who hates when people think my stutter is cute? I get fetish vibes whenever someone tells me that and why would you think that's cute when it affects my life daily?...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
3 points

So, in like the same vein, do you think women finding who may find short men attractive? Or skinny guys? Because I find things that most ppl don’t find attractive I do. I love gaps, crowding, braces,...

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