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postr/StutterJun 18, 2017
6 points

How do you blow off some steam on a non-fluent day?

How do you blow off some steam on a non-fluent day? I guess we all have those exhausting days every now and then when you're at your worst, have way more blocks than usual and you feel beyond frustrat...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2017
7 points

I'm in a band and go on tour regularly. Singing on stage in front of thousands is easy (fluency-wise i mean, other than that it's still nerve-wrecking) - having to talk during interviews is difficult ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2017
1 points

I find it stressful and so does everyone else, sitting back and waiting for you to say a word you're stuttering on. And pardon me for my 'ignorance', but when you were in the midst of your 'friendly c...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2017
1 points

Okay? And I also substitute words OFTEN and frankly I hate it. I just personally find it very stressful and sometimes find it better to just fight through my stutter or block, and it actually starts t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerMindset shift
postr/StutterJun 14, 2017
2 points

I'm impatient and easily irritated and can't stand when my stuttering father speaks to me

I'm impatient and easily irritated and can't stand when my stuttering father speaks to me [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2017
2 points

So now I can't be a stutterer because I have a decent vocabulary? I even changed my name to a nick name to cope with it as my name is also a trigger. Nobody said it's a cure. I don't care what you th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2017
0 points

Coming from someone who stutters, I find it hard to believe that you really do. Because if you do you'd know how stressful it is to try to find similar words and in the heat of the moment and sometime...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
3 points

Who wants to spend their whole life trying to say one thing one way when there's a billion other ways to say it? It's insulting to assume simply 'relaxing' is this new cure-all.. Like, I've tried, tha...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2017
2 points

I get the same way whether I want to or not. I think it's like seeing myself in a mirror and being pissed off at how pathetic I look and wishing I could just talk to myself from the outside and tell m...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2017
1 points

Yes, that's not a good reaction, I don't think. Maybe you should figure out more about why you get angry. Do you get angry when you stutter yourself?...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2017
1 points

Maybe I didn't make it clear enough. I don't even show it physically, it's just in my head that I get angry and the anger usually lasts for like 10 seconds anyway. Sadly I don't see my speech therap...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Frustration & AngerSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
1 points

I feel this way too, the guy that I talked to would stutter and I'd immediately get impatient like what is he doing, just say it already. It's weird...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
2 points

We are extremely similar! I made a post about this a few months ago, though I feel a lot more uncomfortable than mad. Like other people say, it's projection; it's what oyu think about yourself project...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
3 points

This 100% - and also OP, no - you're not the only one. I have gotten over this though. It began as anger, then morphed into pain, and then when I accepted my stutter - I stopped feeling all those thin...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMay 23, 2017
10 points

Am I the only one getting mad when hearing other people stutter?

Am I the only one getting mad when hearing other people stutter? I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I'm currently 17 years old and I'm going to school to be an electrician. I'd descri...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2017
1 points

I really can't believe how inconsiderate people can be, I had a similar experiences in school the one thing that stopped the people laughing was taking a stand for myself. Although I don't advocate vi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
2 points

Shit, I'm sorry to hear that. But I kinda envy you for having the guts to beat up people and stand up for yourself, personally I've always kinda been a coward when it comes to dealing with jerks....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
2 points

Plenty of time especially during high school, got into fights, got turned into an angry rage monster, still am a rage monster. Got older and knew I couldn't really keep on beating people who made fun...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
5 points

The last person to make fun of me was a 45 year old jackass country boy that worked at Home Depot, I think I was like 24(30 now). I'm a big guy and I actually got in his face, it felt so good to be ab...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
1 points

I get that sometimes and the only thing i can think of as advice is to remind them over and over again until they get it. Don't be rude though.. you're not the person in the wrong. If you get angry, y...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger