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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
1 points

You are a whole person. Don’t let your stutter being you down. In my experience, people don’t care that much. Have things to offer society. Don’t focus on your stutter. It’s not who you are. I had a s...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
5 points

You are a good work colleague! Everyone is different but in the past I would have wanted my work colleagues to ask me if there is anything they can do to help and also for them to ask if I wanted t...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
6 points

Similar to what others have said, I find patience and attention the most comforting. I think talking to them about it would be a huge help. I’d personally probably be quite offended if someone asked i...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
10 points

maybe ask him or ger about it too. just talking about it will help them. believe it or not, they might think you haven't even noticed! having a friend they can open up too might help them relax more ...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
26 points

I'll leave an old comment of mine here with some edits, might be helpful. I once applied for a customer service job and had rather obvious blocks and stutters during the interview. The two manager...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
7 points

Definitely yes. However, I went to a couple of meetings a few years ago, and there was a regular attendee who had severe stuttering problem, and he looked like a typical dork. To my surprise, he didn...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
10 points

We have a stutter support Discord server with 1400 members, we voice chat together all the time! Please join....

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2022
1 points

This is an excellent video - please share it as widely as you can. This will help your friends understand more about your experience!...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2022
2 points

If you have been on this sub long enough you might know that many see their stutter as their worst enemy. A curse. The one thing in life that is holding them back. I do this too. And I think most peop...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
18 points

Sounds like the stuttering population have a high percentage of smart and educated people and with a good stable job. 👍...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
2 points

Join a Stutter Support group and listen to other people who stutter. The more you start to actually hear others who stutter, the more you will normalize yourself for stuttering. It is also interesting...

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postr/StutterOct 10, 2022
8 points

I playfully fake stuttered in front of my parter that stutters while we were flirting and I made the biggest mistake of my life

I playfully fake stuttered in front of my parter that stutters while we were flirting and I made the biggest mistake of my life Hi, I'm writing here because I want to better myself and want to ackno...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
4 points

I love your analogy of a break up and how you understand your relationship with your voice. In my case it wasn’t so much about not caring about my stutter but rather reframing the relationship I had...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
2 points

i felt exactly the same as you at 16 and unfortunately for me back then, I didn't have reddit or forums to share and follow. i thought i was completely alone. I'm 34 now and if I could go back in time...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
1 points

That sucks, we all know exactly how you feel. Don't let it get you down. I always tell people drive throughs are our worst nightmare. I try to make light of it. When I have to do an ice breaker at wor...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
8 points

Bro don’t let this discourage you one bit. It’s gonna happen it comes with having a stutter. But the moment you give up you lose. We have good experiences and bad experiences. We need the bad to truly...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2022
3 points

This honestly helped me a lot mentally and has motivated me to fight a big fear of mine. I appreciate you writing this....

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2022
10 points

That's crazy dont be hard on your self that's something we can't control you gonna get thr job u looking for just keep pushing...

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postr/StutterOct 6, 2022
33 points

Currently sitting in a presentation and observing how well people speak

Currently sitting in a presentation and observing how well people speak Envy is filling my heart but I'm pushing it out and happy that people don't go through the feelings us stutters go through. Let'...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
5 points

Try to go to an NSA conference. You will meet 100s of people just like you that stutter and that understands everything you are going through...

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