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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2025
22 points

Had a girlfriend tell me her parents didn’t want her to marry me because “they didn’t want their grandkids to stutter.” Bullet dodged. I met my amazing wife a few years later. OP, consider this a ble...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2025
11 points

I don't think so, all of my previous partners didn't even mention that I had a stutter. They didn't care about it or talk about it at all. I'm in my early twenties, and I've dated plenty before lol. ...

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postr/StutterOct 27, 2025
23 points

Relationships

Relationships My girlfriend broke up with me the other day and one of the things she said is her family said “he’s a nice guy but we don’t think he’s the one for you”. It’s a backhanded insult in my ...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2025
4 points

Yes. I’m actually a pretty charismatic guy once I warm up and you get to know me, which I feel is some sort of built-in filter to keep out the inauthentic people lol. But yeah, I’ve never had signif...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2025
2 points

if many stutters(men mainly)see their stutter as a issue rather then a seductive tool and weapon, then good lawd, the 1% of us who flips the script will happily take your hoes with without apology! lo...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
8 points

There’s been so many times I’ve thought about leaving this sub because of the types of posts and responses that are here. I mean it’s good for people to have a place to feel supported about something ...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
0 points

It’s not the stutter that’s preventing you from getting women, the amount of bitches who find it endearing is suprising, and if u think it’s some major blockade of finding love, you’re wrong🙏...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
24 points

I'm always hesitant to comment or post on anything because I see comments that like to blame women for not dating stuttering men. As a queer woman, it's hard to relate to any experience like this beca...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

Just got married 4 months ago! Life is what you make of it. Some women love the Halo Effect too though...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

yeah i can’t lie i don’t care about my stuttering especially when i have more important things like moving out, getting a partner, having a good career...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2025
0 points

The method

The method I just read a post here for fellas who can’t get girls cuz of the stutter, saying to accept your stutter etc That was really nice to hear and I love having that hope, god bless. But in t...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I got into a debate with a woman on Reddit in a dating subreddit. I told her that I was very successful with online dating even though I have a moderate to severe speech impediment (diagnosed by an S...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I got into a debate with a woman on Reddit in a dating subreddit. I told her that I was very successful with online dating even though I have a moderate type of severe speech impediment (diagnosed by...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

1) you mentioned that you feel selfish talking about yourself. dont. please be you. the last thing he needs is for you to treat him differently because he stutters. just talk about yourself, let him t...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

my boyfriend literally helps me order food at restaurants, thats the bare minimum don’t lower yourself down cause of a stutter....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

Some individuals with stutters can, in certain cases, fall into psychological and social patterns similar to those seen in stereotypical incel communities. This does not apply to everyone who stutters...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

>In my experience, people are attracted to those who believe in themselves. They don't see someone struggling with their stutter, they see someone overcoming it and that is an attractive quality. I a...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

That’s a really good point. Communication is huge, and it can be tough when a stutter makes it harder to show affection. But in a good relationship, the person will care more about your effort and fee...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

40% of men aren’t dating nor have a partner and we can’t know how much it would increase for someone with stutter but likely even more, im 16 and i’m happy for all of y’all in the comments married or ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
6 points

As a woman who stutters, I have always hated how the dating mindset on here is. It’s like everyone forgets we exist and we have trouble dating too. Anyone who severely stutters will have more difficul...

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