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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

If you’re matching with women who aren’t asking about you then you’re matching with the wrong ones. I think when you bring it up might depend on how severe or noticeable it is. In the case of the pe...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

I agree, yet this type of thinking for a lot of men especially can make them feel like they are showing vulnerability or not being secure in themselves. I often messaged people I was going on dates ...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

How long have you dated him? Give him some time to open up and get more comfortable and his humor will come out in no time:-) whatever you do, don't try to fill in the words for him when he pauses. :-...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
2 points

I see you asking about will it reduce over time etc. Obviously, every stutter /stutterer is different, but I have a stutter similar to what you're describing. I tell people I am not a first impressi...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
3 points

In this case, it's completely fine for you to bring it up. It's hard enough for us to get dates so if you bringing it up helps give this relationship a chance, then it's a the right thing to do. (I'm...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
1 points

Everyone say that but ı think people don't see us. (ı am 24 years old and I never had a girl friend )...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
1 points

Oh I know it can be done. I am close to 40 years old. I was married once and have dated lots....

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
1 points

When I was younger I used to think I would never get a girlfriend because of my stutter, I was able to hide it enough when dating to finally get a girlfriend and end up marrying her, I obviously told ...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

A 36 year old man, looks like 18yr old handsome still Going to clubs or bars won’t helped At moment, I’m depressed and low self esteem of my stuttering due to my epilepsy. Therapy has helped a littl...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

Relationships can always be tricky - regardless whether you stutter or not. You will naturally get along with some people more than others. I don’t think I’ve had a relationship end because of my stut...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

I don't think so, all of my previous partners didn't even mention that I had a stutter. They didn't care about it or talk about it at all. I'm in my early twenties, and I've dated plenty before lol. D...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
2 points

The thing to remember is the women you are considering dating are also self-conscious about their own issues. They might be worried about how they look, how they are perceived, how they sound when the...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

I’ve been dating since I was 14… I was always a covert stutterer and people just passed it off as I’m a shy boy. I met my wife when I was 15. Now I’m 54. 😎👍🏼...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
1 points

Honestly, DM. Without coming across as cocky. I have quite a fair few amount of partners and gfs. I get it can be harder than normal but you have to change other things and show confidence in other wa...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
3 points

I'm a man, I'm 19, and I've never had a girlfriend either, but I'm in an online group for people who stutter, and I've noticed that half of them are actively dating. In other words, although it may se...

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postr/StutterOct 28, 2025
2 points

Dating and stuttering

Dating and stuttering Stuttering has been a part of my life since I was 15 or 16y/o, now I am 21 and I have accepted that it's gonna be with forever and I am trying to be more open about it but it fee...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
2 points

Nice, I have 3 boys and none of them stutter. Yeah I know there is someone out there, it’s going to be difficult to find her though. Single dad of 3 chaotic boys, moderate to severe speech impedimen...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
3 points

Hurt at the time but what a favor they did for me. My wife’s family (parents, aunts, cousins, etc & especially her mom) all loved me from the moment she brought me around. Like, my wife would often ...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2025
7 points

You will never know why her parents said that. You also don't know if it's true. Either way, you have to let it go and move on. I will say, count your blessings, you've been released from a situation ...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2025
5 points

If that was the excuse to end the relationship then she wasn't worth it for you. I'm 61 I've started most of my life and not once has any relationship ended because of my stutter or because any relati...

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