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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

I met my partner in my dream. Every time I try to find in real life, my stuttering be like "are you forgetting about me" with a tight slap on my confidence....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Been stuttering for 12 years, and my parents still think im just “nervous” or “not confident”....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
2 points

I felt the same way when I had to speak in front of the class. The absolute silence in the class when I spoke was almost frightening to me, and I was really, really scared of messing that up. But, I m...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
2 points

This may vary, but as a stutterer, there are times when I speak and I cannot get words out and it causes me to become frustrated + flustered + (enter other emotion here) at myself, and it's not at *yo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Exchange

Exchange I am very anxious, 2 months ago my school admitted me to a school exchange and I paid an advance of €250. I don't want to go because of my stutter and my difficulty in introducing myself, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
9 points

Struggling with Stuttering, Speech Blocks, and Social Anxiety

Struggling with Stuttering, Speech Blocks, and Social Anxiety Hey everyone, I’ve been dealing with stuttering and speech blocks for a while now, and it’s become a major issue for me, especially in soc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
12 points

People stop talking just to listen to me, which makes me feel pressured to finish my sentence quickly

People stop talking just to listen to me, which makes me feel pressured to finish my sentence quickly It's supposed to be a good thing, right? The class is usually busy in themselves during lectures, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

I feel you. 5 years back, I used to say the exact same things youre saying, and i used to come up with qll kinds of explanation on why i was struggling at work, why i had high anxiety, etc etc. Then ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
4 points

Yes of course. I feel comfortable to talk with people who stutter themselves. Maybe it’s a belief that I won’t be judged, I don’t know. 🤷‍♀️ talk to him about your fears and issues...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
3 points

I see, I have a vocal repetition OCD so now that you mention mainly anxiety I can better understand it like how I live it. I know he is maybe worried or stressed that it’s not okay with me I’ve tried ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
19 points

Accept your partner with the stutter. Give them the extra time needed to complete sentences. There will be times when they’ll face ridicule, mockery from others and it’ll break them. Be there, hear th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & ConflictListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
4 points

Yep - it's physically, mentally and emotionally draining to have a stammer/stutter and struggle, whether you're actually talking or just thinking about it constantly. Have you looked into what kind of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
5 points

The shame you feel comes from the part of you that doesn't want to 'accept' the stutter, and thereforefore fuels the negative feedback loop. Imagine you're talking to a baby, or a dog or a wall, would...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

Not caring about it actually dwarfs the anxiety that comes with stuttering so you can speak more fluent and also think/react better in the situation. But you should psychologically figure out how to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

My stuttering surely lead me to the point where I’m at now. Long story short is that because of my stuttering I had huge social anxiety (was literally afraid to ask people on street how to get somewhe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
8 points

Avoiding flatmates

Avoiding flatmates I live on campus with 5 other flatmates and they’re really wonderful. I always check if someone is in the kitchen or not before going in first because honestly I don’t want to have ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

This reminds me of the other day when me and my boyfriend picked up Chipotle for dinner. They forgot to give us forks for our bowls, so he told me to go back and ask for some, since he got out and gra...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

I feel that as well. I am beginning to believe my stutter is a lot worse than I thought it was ever since I started interacting with a lot of new people...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
4 points

Only recently, after i had uncovered what i think the root cause of my stutter is* had it even crossed my mind. But yes, i wonder... i ponder... i dwell... i spiral (just a little). I mean, the stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringExperiential AssociationStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

@Comrade_4 I'm half way through my second year at uni and I am like you. I struggle the most when starting conversations or if I'm asked a question out of the blue where I am not able to prepare an a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more