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postr/StutterOct 21, 2021
47 points

I found a mind-blowingly perfect stuttering analogy in a research paper (unknown author)

I found a mind-blowingly perfect stuttering analogy in a research paper (unknown author) The resounding conclusion I come to when pondering stuttering is perfectly summed up in this. I’d be curious to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
3 points

I’m kind of In the same situation and haven’t figured it out yet really myself but from what I know so far and this is my own opinion is that it might come down to suppressing deeper feelings and all ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
3 points

Exactly the same here. I hit the revelation when a few years ago when I hit 28. It’s not my fault if people aren’t understanding if my disability 🤷‍♂️ I’ve been enjoying life more ever since I starte...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
5 points

I’m 25 and I’ve reached this same kind of enlightenment where stuttering just doesn’t stop me from living everyday life when I stutter it’s just whatever to me and I Carry on with my day when I was yo...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
5 points

I’m in the exact same situation, down to the age and rarely actually stuttering, and I agree 100%....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
9 points

Yeah I feel the same way, when I was younger I would avoid speaking situations at all costs. Don't really do that anymore, I'm 26...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2021
5 points

I used to when I was ashamed of my stutter, now, I just record it, blocks and all. At this point in my life, life is too short to worry about that....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2021
9 points

I think it's worth evaluating the sort of environment you're in. I don't know about you but I personally find it too difficult to speak in noisier environments with loud music and too many people spea...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Environmental TriggersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
2 points

If your place of employment considers stuttering to be "unprofessional" then that's ableism, it's as simple as that. Whether or not stammering is a disability is up for debate and opinions vary from ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
3 points

I feel that texting probably gives them a break. I stutter and when I text it’s the only opportunity where I seem 100% fluent....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
2 points

Wow. In my case I feel like my writing is better than most because of my stutter....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
5 points

I used to be the quiet person, too. I'm 41 now and it is hard to get me to shut up - also more fluent. I went though all these same professional situations and would dread public speaking for days pr...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
7 points

I feel it's unfortunate that some people can't comprehend or accept that being quiet or reserved doesn't have to be a bad trait. It's such a bold statement to assume one lacks confidence when they may...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
8 points

Not exactly a similar situation, but I use to be that quiet person. Don’t let this bother you at all. Keep doing your thing! The other person didn’t leave because they were quiet. Being the quiet per...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 10, 2021
22 points

Escape From Reality

Escape From Reality Hey everyone. I've just joined Reddit and this sub thread because it feels like a good place to share my thoughts. I'd like to share an incident that took place yesterday at work I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
11 points

can you stutter in text or does that mean you are just faking it?

can you stutter in text or does that mean you are just faking it? ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

Don’t be afraid to be open with your feelings with people who don’t stutter...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

I honestly move throughout life without even thinking about it much. Obviously easier said then done, but I surrounded myself with people who don’t see me as the guy with the stutter, very thankful. W...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

If you’re usually funny in text then start making jokes about your own stuttering when you’re texting her. Say something like, “I stutter and I’m probably gunna be so nervous when I see you that I’m r...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

In my dating experience I never disclose I have a stutter when first talking to someone new I usually hide it until I’m comfortable enough to let it show. My stutter has never detoured anyone away fro...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance