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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2025
10 points

For me, taking a breath and slowing down does work, I just don’t want random people telling me to do it because it’s really none of their business....

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
6 points

Your stutter is actually a great filtering mechanism. The right girls won’t care about it, and the wrong ones will cancel themselves out before you have a chance to waste time with them. Bottom line: ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Dating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
6 points

Too many to remember! But trust me, you're never alone. The best thing you can do when someone mocks you is stand up for yourself and tell them that they're laughing at someone that has a disability....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
7 points

No. If she likes YOU (which you’ll never learn if you don’t approach her), then that won’t matter. You’d rather find out now, than find out later that she secretly despises it and throws it in your fa...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
1 points

Yeah for sure when it comes to therapy I'm 100% confident that my therapist won't joke or make any bad comments about it....

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
4 points

Because some stutterers are open about it when it comes to therapy specially, they feel comfortable that they shared having a stutter, and being confident 100% sure that the therapist wouldn’t joke or...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

the tip about encouraging "what do you mean" sounds good. I will take it, but I'm a bit afraid of taking it fully without regulations in place. I'd probably enforce a rule like "you may ask for clari...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
11 points

Discrimination is so normalized. It's bad out there. the basic principle we need to fight for is that the disabled person should be the one to choose how to communicate. If I want to speak, let me fi...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Access & RightsStigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
2 points

Your right they will figure it out later but they can't exactly sack you for that reason. However, if they are aware of the stutter during the interview then they can simply not offer you the role....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2025
1 points

Of course. Here is a concise, thesis-based summary of the self-help program from Malcolm Fraser's book "Self-Therapy for the Stutterer," translated into English. The Core Premise Stuttering is not s...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2025
5 points

Interviews for doctors trying to get onto training programs e.g surgery, emergency medicine, go for 10-15 mins. For such an important job you’d think it would be longer, so I wouldn’t stress about tim...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2025
8 points

I read your post twice and no I don’t think disclosure cost you the job. The time of the interview does seem like it’s on the shorter side, but there could be several reasons for that. You don’t know ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2025
1 points

I have disclosed that I stutter at every interview. I live by if I don’t get it the job then it is their loss if they judge me by the way I speak....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2025
6 points

Im kind of a bitch so I love to tell people how wrong they are about their misconceptions of my stutter. A lot have told me that, or similar, but I don’t keep count. It’s so weird to think about thoug...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2025
1 points

That's right. It's actually kind of funny that sometimes I, as someone who stutters, have to step into a discussion and explain to others what they are talking about so they can understand each other ...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
2 points

If you really can't utter a single word then talk to the Professor and ask for a reasonable accomodation. If you can utter words but only after delays and blocks, just push through with no fs given. ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
1 points

Speech Pathologist could and should be doing so much more to support us. We should always have advocates we can use and support for job interviews....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
1 points

You got this, I know largely what you are going through. My life is a mess and Ive been reflecting massively on it. I like you state it feels like we are at the mercy of who ever we are talking to. ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2025
12 points

I just graduated. The most important thing is to not hold back from any social event, any oral presentation, any opportunity. Be open about your stutter everywhere and all the time. If your mental hea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2025
1 points

Ask them not to interrupt,,,,,I stammer too but never let others interrupt me.....have self respect.....you are just a stutterer and not a thief who is ashamed of what he/she is doing..........

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying