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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2020
3 points

When I went on the first date with my girlfriend of now 5 years, she kept asking me if I was nervous and I just said chuckled, said no and asked why she thought that and she "oh no reason." About a ye...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2020
8 points

I once spoke to a gentleman at a gas station but my extreme stutter must have left him thinking I had a huge crush on him....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2020
1 points

Sounds great about getting back into therapy. I hope you get some great assistance in managing things through that process. For what it's worth, I actually regularly go to talk therapy just for my gen...

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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2020
1 points

Be honest about it. It helps. Talking about it really does help. And if it makes you uncomfortable then it makes him uncomfortable even more because he can't even understand what's happening inside of...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2020
3 points

Thank you for your response. :) My boyfriend and I live about 40-45 minutes away from each other so unfortunately we can’t see each other on an everyday basis, it’s usually once or twice a week. So th...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2020
3 points

Hello! I know how you feel, you’re actually braver than me as I am scared nuts to pick up the phone, but personally, in my relationships I don’t talk over the phone at all; we both live close and if n...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
2 points

Lol I wish I can meet a girl with a stutter. Not that a girl having a stutter would make us automatically a match. But I feel like it will be so much easier to be with someone who has a stutter and un...

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Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
7 points

The first time I ever romantically hung out with my now-wife, I told her I stuttered. She actually didn’t believe me at first because at that point in my life, I was pretty fluent. Over 11 years later...

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Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
6 points

Congrats on facing your fear!! I still remember when my boyfriend (now husband) told me he had a stutter. I already knew, didn’t care, but it was a big deal for him to say the words and feel like he c...

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commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
4 points

So happy for you! I’ve been where you are and it was such a relief after I told my boyfriend about my stutter. It’s just another part of us that makes us unique. Knowing that your other half is aware ...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2020
13 points

Bro, as a stutterer, finding someone who accepts you for YOU and looks past the stuttering is a blessing. Her opening up to you about it is big for her. The first thing you should avoid is finishing h...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2020
1 points

Anytime man, feel free to pm me if you ever wanna talk. When it comes to confidence, in my experience it comes with experiences that take guts. For example, presenting in class, attending networking e...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2020
1 points

Bro you will find someone, trust me. Women look past that and look at confidence and the way you make them feel. Also, when you talk to someone you really love, your fluency gets better, trust me...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2020
10 points

I swear to God, if you don't leave this piece of shit I'll be so mad at you! Please, I'm begging you, leave! My girlfriend would never do this to me, because it's not that hard to be a decent human be...

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Frustration & AngerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
2 points

Hi. I just wanted to say you're not alone! :) I've literally avoided relationships my entire life because I was scared that I was going to stutter. I would like to find a new job, but I refuse to look...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2020
1 points

As far as girls go, your time will come. We all see through peoples flaws to establish a relationship. You're young, keep at it!...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2020
1 points

I read your post and it made me wonder, i stutter and am 21 and have only had one gf. She accepted the stutter but we broke up for other reasons. Do you try when it comes to dating or do you get rejec...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

It has affected my dating life in a way that I was scared to talk to girls because of fear of being judged but I've learned to take control I make it no secret that I stutter when I talk to girls I ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

Stuttering doesn't affect my dating life coz I don't have any :D......

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

I have to prove myself before a single word is spoken to be given a chance in any sort of companionship. It induces a lot of failure related anxiety, because when I do fall nobody will have the patien...

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