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postr/StutterMar 1, 2025
2 points

Advice needed for school oral exams

Advice needed for school oral exams So my GCSEs are coming up fast and my french oral is in several weeks. My stutter in french is 1000% times worse than in English - I can't go one sentence without g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2025
1 points

Thanks for your answer :) Yes i would never interrupt her, even tho sometimes with people i slip a comment while they are speaking because i find it important, i would be very aware of not doing this ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
4 points

Honestly just tell her, be genuine at least when I talked to people I NOTICED all the reactions even the ones they tried to hide and whether or not they truly cared or not i got on myself a little bit...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

Yes it's just different and i don't find it awkward, it's just a way some people speak. But i think im not used to this and my brain automatically becomes nervous. I have anxiety too so it might make ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
5 points

Just try to think of it as a normal way that people speak, just different, not something that is necessarily awkward or uncomfortable. Imagine that her speech was interrupted because she had to cough,...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loss of ControlListener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

i'd like to know what it's ok to do when i meet with someone who stutters

i'd like to know what it's ok to do when i meet with someone who stutters Hi guys, i've been talking with a girl on hinge and i've discovered that she stutters. I'd like to know what i can say to make...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

Yeah I guess, it was an offhand comment and they probably just assumed I was nervous to speak in front of people, so I’m sure they thought they were being nice… it’s really ignorance and that thing wh...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
6 points

just venting….can anyone relate?

just venting….can anyone relate? Just want to vent and see if anyone has similar stories…. Have you been in a situation where somebody assumes you don’t want to do a speaking situation… when actuall...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
1 points

Hi, I'm 44 years old and have stuttered since I could talk. My stutter is horrendous during interviews (and I've had a lot of interviews over the years) but it's never stopped me getting a job. Look a...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
6 points

More blocks could be indicative of stuttering less freely. Combined with the fact that you struggle with starting conversations, and it is situational, fear and other negative emotions are probably p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
3 points

I’m sorry this happened to you and I understand it: that was my entire school experience, and it was awful. What people don’t understand, is that this kind of approach only traumatizes you. You don’t ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
7 points

Reading out loud

Reading out loud So, I’m in my 9th year at school, I go to a very very small school so we know each other well, but it’s like the teachers DONT understand that reading out loud and doing presentations...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
3 points

I know I’m late, but I stuttered really bad at an interview recently and my boyfriend told me that most people will actually see that as impressive that in spite of having a hard time talking and adve...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

It’s clear that you care deeply about your husband and are trying hard to make things better, and that effort should absolutely be acknowledged. You’re actively trying to adapt, and you’ve already tak...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

You’re absolutely right to point out that stuttering affects both the person who stutters and those around them. And yes, I understand that OP is voicing their genuine frustration, which is completely...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
3 points

As a person who has both ADHD and a stutter, I can sympathize with your frustration and your husband's pain. Communicating with a person who stutters requires patience which you clearly lack. His stut...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stimulants & CaffeineAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
1 points

I'm going to make some very different recommendations to most of the people here. I do stutter, but can completely understand your frustrations with it - it's frustration we all have on this subreddi...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyTherapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
-3 points

Is this a sub about unconditional love or is this about stuttering? You’re making a ton of assumptions here about OP and you are completely missing the mark. OP is sharing with us what their emotion...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
3 points

No, you don’t love this man. Sometimes my boyfriend gets a bit frustrated with me when we our in a store, for example, and I am talking low and he has to keep asking me to repeat myself. Once I expl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
7 points

As long as you get frustrated, his speech will just get worse. We can pick up on such cues easy, and the added pressure of not upsetting your spouse or the People you love adds much stress. What he ne...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsLoss of Control+3 more