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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
2 points

When I was conscripted, one of the sergeants told me to “hold your ground”. Looking back, it was one of the best pieces of advice someone could give. You don’t need to fight the bully, but you can’t ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2024
1 points

What if the bully is stronger than you? This only applies if the bully is weaker than you else you will get whooped and get bullied even more. This is stupid, just talk to them assertively and tell th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2024
6 points

I like your original post but I dont like you calling other people who dont fight back pussies. Now you talk like a bully....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2024
8 points

In today’s climate, fighting will get you in trouble and the bullies celebrated. Unless you are fully justified, the days of pummeling a bully until it hurts for them to talk are probably over. Plu...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2024
2 points

I’m sure it’s effective, but not fail proof. What if you get blamed for starting it and can’t verbally defend yourself? Punching a bully would not have been worth losing my spot in the program I worke...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 4, 2024
1 points

For kids being bullied in school

For kids being bullied in school This is what helped me. You have to be ready to fight over someone mocking your stuttering or trying to make a joke of you. The next person who tries you, you need to ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2024
2 points

Jesus that difference is mind blowing. Stuttering is just so so bad and we’re getting absolutely no recognition. Not to mention people treat us like lazy, unmotivated, etc, like it’s our decision. ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingQuality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2024
1 points

Good for the us . Where im from it technically isnt. People just look at you like a retard, and you don’t get no benefits...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2024
-2 points

Sorry but I don’t think that’s a good idea. You’re just giving people more ammunition. We’re laughed at enough as it is....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2024
5 points

I can never outright say my name so I always repeat back to them, “my name is blank” but the other problem is if I’m on a day when I can’t say my then I’m just screwed all around. Alternatively the ol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 2, 2024
1 points

This is probably common question but I don’t feel like searching this subreddit so here it is. How tf do you say your own name? 😭

This is probably common question but I don’t feel like searching this subreddit so here it is. How tf do you say your own name? 😭 Unless I’m drunk my own name is really difficult to say and it’s an a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2024
1 points

Has she always done this? I ask because sometimes a stutter develops. After all, someone tries to bully or make you feel ashamed. But to answer your question, she's wrong and it's your voice not her...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2024
1 points

Hey! Im a ranch hand and horse trainer! It depends on the day, I can go from speaking to nobody to talking to a room full of people! Some people make snide comments or whatever, key is to just not giv...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2024
1 points

Unfortunately, a lot of people are not aware of stuttering....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2024
3 points

Work in retail. Since this is retail/medical I wouldn't be too worried about it. If you go in with your ID ready, even if they don't need to scan it, it will help you keep from having to verbally give...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2024
5 points

Salon Owner / Hairstylist - moderate stutterer Most people don’t say anything and if they do it’s some inspirational bullshit like *wow! Look at you working a full time job and not letting your disab...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

happens to me literally all of the time. I know how you feel. People always act like I am a child and incapable of handling myself, including distant family. I’ve had my doctor asked if I had a ride h...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

In a world full of people who usually need to do more thinking before they speak, You however can are different, every word has meaning to it because every single word takes effort to get out. You may...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

What are your jobs?

What are your jobs? I'm a student and it's hard daily talking to people ( as a student ). What is it like for stutters that has jobs? Is it a one person jobs with no one to talk to or is it a multiple...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
6 points

I’m sorry this happened. Maybe it’s just me being a Karen… but I would NOT let that slide. I think this could be a very valuable learning opportunity for everyone there. I would write a short and poli...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries