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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
2 points

Same with me, it's one of those things I feel like I will never get over. Sometimes I'm dying to express myself, not letting somebody else take the girl again and just try my shot, but I can't because...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
3 points

Throughout my childhood until I was 18 I thought I would never find a wife and find a job. Now in my mid thirties, I am married to a wonderful woman, have a daughter and I am more financially secure...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
10 points

1000% yes. Because I can’t talk to women I may be attracted to, I have zero chat-up ability, so for me, this extends also to online dating....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
1 points

P.s. not able tp face a girl is not the end of the world P.P.S i am a girl so i can tell...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2020
1 points

Yes I agree! The emotional reaction was so important to get rid of. I also remember key friendships and romantic relationships that changed my perspective. Came from a loving family but it was those o...

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Acceptance & PrideExperiential AssociationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
1 points

Just curious Do you advertise that you stutter to women or do you try and hide it...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
12 points

So happy for you mate! I had my first kiss last week as a stutterer, it gave me a little confidence too....

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2020
60 points

I won

I won One night, my non-stuttering friend and I were both flirting with/trying to get the same girl. This situation had obviously happened before and more often than not I can’t be bothered to put in ...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Awwwwwh! I’m so happy for you. I also joined this community last night and I’m loving all the support and feedbacks I’m getting. My fear is also it might be a turnoff for him but it’s better to find o...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

I never tell females I stutter they just discover it on their own and most of them be like "Kutlo you stutter!!" It really fascinates them and they kinda like it no one really has a problem with it..M...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

I used something like: "sometimes i get nervous around pretty girls, and when i get nervous i can stutter more. So if that happens, thats all that is". They did not care! We've been together for...

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postr/StutterAug 30, 2020
30 points

How to tell the person you’re seeing you stutter?

How to tell the person you’re seeing you stutter? I’ve been talking to this guy for couple months now and he doesn’t know I have a stutter. We’ve talked on the phone like 2 times and we mostly text. I...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
1 points

You're a bold one bro. I also have a girl friend who love me for who I am. She didn't notice that much that I stutter but she knew eventually and said my stutter is mild but I talk to her everyday via...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2020
2 points

Way to go! I've been there. I'm 25, had about 10 dates total and am now in a wonderful relationship with my crush who doesn't care about my stutter at all. It really helped me to be upfront about it a...

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postr/StutterAug 27, 2020
52 points

Asked my crush out and he accepted. Date was ok. (Getting into a relationship and stutter p. 2)

Asked my crush out and he accepted. Date was ok. (Getting into a relationship and stutter p. 2) This is an update on this post: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/ifonmb/getting\_into\_a\_rel...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
2 points

I’ve been in my relationship for a year & a half. I didn’t bring up my stutter until around the 7-8 month mark because it’s one of my biggest insecurities (maybe it’s the same for your boyfriend?)...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
1 points

I just wanted to chime in as well. I'm 29yo, and I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 24. I thought, until that time, that I was NEVER going to have a LTR. It turns out I was just kind of anxious, a...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
5 points

Hey man! I was once in the same boat. Thing is, you gotta be straight forward about it and if she doesn’t accept you for who you are, then fuck it, move on. There’s going to be a girl that will, I pro...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
6 points

Dawg I’m 20 and I just got a girl recently. I know exactly how you feel but 9/10 the girl doesn’t care about your stutter and will like you for who you are. And shit if she don’t, then she ain’t the o...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
5 points

I have a bad stutter, and my gf has made me accept me how i am, it doesn’t matter because it doesnt make you a lesser person if you stutter. Its all good its just in your head, if shes the right one, ...

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