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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
0 points

I'm not going to lie, it won't be easy. Most girls will disregard you. But there will be someone who will accept you....

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

Really, what I’m doing, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before, by choice ofc. I’m Learning how to make friends first, and then learning how to get girlfriends. Cause due to my stutter I never really...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
24 points

Hi, I’m a female college student who also stutters. Word of advice: the right person will accept you for who you are, stutter and all. If they don’t, you just have to keep looking. Let it happen organ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
6 points

i dont stutter but joined this sub cuz my 4 year old son recently started, so i enjoy reading people's experience as it gives me hope. nevertheless though i happen to be a psychotherapist, and not tha...

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postr/StutterSep 29, 2020
37 points

I have no idea how to talk to girls with my stuttering

I have no idea how to talk to girls with my stuttering I'm a freshman in college and I have a moderate to severe stutter. With COVID, it's really hard to meet girls. I have a few classes in person but...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2020
1 points

I know that feel bro. But, if you explain her, that it would be nice if she patiently waited until you finish your thought, it would help you a lot. Tell her that if she loves you, she should do it fo...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2020
6 points

I’m a 20 year old female with a stutter and i’m not going to lie, it’s not easy. I’ve come to the realization that if someone doesn’t wanna date me for my stutter, i wouldn’t even wanna date that per...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
2 points

Yeah man I know what you mean by using dating apps. Its soo much easier for us to express ourselves. But its annoying becuase I am shit scared I won't be able to reciprocate that same level of transpa...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
2 points

I agree with you. I’m 25 and I always feel like almost no one truly knows me, yet I know I’m very funny, smart, and talented. I know I’m perceived as quiet for most people, but the few that know me, o...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
3 points

I hope I find a girlfriend one day who loves me all for who I am. I’m 21 years old and have never had one before. My stutter definitely doesn’t make it any easier to try to find one either, but noneth...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
2 points

I agree too. Am just blessed to have a sweet girl friend who loves me. She could have dated other guys but she chose me. The love we have for each other is limitless....

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
6 points

She loves me and have feelings for me. One of the reasons why she loves me is because of my kindness and how a treat her. Am romantic. Lol...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
6 points

The only that I worry about is I talk too fast but when am conscious I talk slow a bit. My stutter is obvious. When I told her she said she loves me even though she knows I stutter. Some girls don't l...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
9 points

I'm a girl, so I can't exactly give you a guy's perspective, but I've had 6 boyfriends through out my life and none of them have had an issue with my stutter. One guy did try to push that Neuro lingui...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
4 points

I have a mild stutter too. Sometimes people can't even tell I'm stuttering because I speak fluently. It's much more obvious other times, but I don't let it bother me and it doesn't bother my incredibl...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2020
16 points

You’re a lucky man. I had a similar relationship in high school, but had to break it off due to long distance in college. I think if the girl is genuine and likes you for who you are, she has no pro...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2020
29 points

Do girls have problems with guys who stutter especially in relationships?

Do girls have problems with guys who stutter especially in relationships? I have a lovely girlfriend who loves me for who I am. She doesn't complain about my mild stutter at all, except for once or tw...

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postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
8 points

Should I tell my date that I have a stutter before we meet in person?

Should I tell my date that I have a stutter before we meet in person? I have a spontaneous date with a girl I've met coming up this weekend. I haven't mentioned that I stutter. Should I mention it bef...

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postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
1 points

Should I tell my date that I have stutter before we meet up?

Should I tell my date that I have stutter before we meet up? [deleted]...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2020
3 points

Of course. I would think every stutterer has this issue. I was a wreck in my teens and twenties trying to talk to women. In my 30s, it occurred to me, if i approach women with no intentions, su...

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