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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
1 points

*even when I match…...

commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
1 points

I know how that feels. Been single since 2021 due to self confidence issues. Ever when I match with 50+ women in tinder or Facebook dating, I never follow through with actually meeting that. I’ve star...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
4 points

I’d actually like to find a cleaning job but I wanna find it like in the daytime/morning. I’m just waiting until I get done with this semester of school and then I’m gonna do part-time school with a f...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
9 points

You could get a cleaning job doing banks or doctors offices at night. 0 talking. No annoying humans to judge you for just trying to feed yourself....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
12 points

All of my past girlfriends and my wife told me one of the things that attracted them to me was my stutter. A stutter is disarming and makes you unique and thoughtful. These are highly attractive quali...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
0 points

Has anyone here went on testosterone for gender affirming care?

Has anyone here went on testosterone for gender affirming care? I'm a 14 year old who was assigned female at birth. I have a severe developmental stutter, and have had one since I started talking. I c...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Environmental TriggersHarmful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks
postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
9 points

I don’t know how I should go about finding a job

I don’t know how I should go about finding a job I (M21) don’t mean that I don’t know where I should look but the past couple of jobs I’ve had I have had horrible coworkers who were not very fond of m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
11 points

Just shoot your shot. I let it get in my head for waaaay too long. Truth is - the good women don't care. Being your authentic self is the most important thing. Stuttering is part of that....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
2 points

This conversation has been mostly poisoned by the use of the word cure. Is there a simple cure for stuttering? No. Is there a set practice of exercises or speech therapy that can be used to attain flu...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
4 points

>I can’t stop thinking about how stuttering is a turn off for women >the fact that I stutter is something that makes her think I’m only good as a friend.  The above sounds like it's not stuttering ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
5 points

Ya I agree with you man, it definitely makes it harder. But that gives you a reason to try harder. I’ve had girls tell me it’s cute aswell but that’s just cope tbh. It’s cute like a gay couple is “cut...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Dating & RomanceMindset shiftEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
5 points

Stutter/speech issues ruining my life

Stutter/speech issues ruining my life I'm 37/M, I have not had classic speech impediments/stuttering that started during childhood. I was actually verbal early according to my parents and as a child...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
1 points

This would make sense. I’ve never been able to keep a rhythm. In first year of high school, people thought I was dumb because I couldn’t keep a very basic rhythm on the drums....

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Situational VariabilityRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
7 points

That’s great, happy for you! I keep telling myself what you say but it feels hard to shake the insecurity off. Friends keep telling me it’s a flaw like any other and not a dealbreaker but I’m still ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
16 points

I’m 48. I’ve never had a problem with relationships. The right girl will not mind at all. May even find it cute....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
1 points

JJAAAJAJAJAJA NO WAY...

postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
25 points

Feel like stuttering prevents me from finding a relationship and it’s starting to get to me

Feel like stuttering prevents me from finding a relationship and it’s starting to get to me Finally decided to post in here to get some insight from people who might understand. For the past few yea...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
3 points

You sound like a younger me. Feel free to contact me. I'd like to help. I've not beaten it but it's not the most important thing in my life anymore. You will get there. 😊👍...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
8 points

You just learn to accept that it’s just part of what makes you, “you.” I don’t get anxiety from knowing I’m about to stutter (or that I will eventually stutter) anymore. The feeling that never really...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingPublic Speaking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
11 points

I accept that I stutter the same way I accept that I have bipolar disorder. The same way I accept that I have bad eye sight. The same way I accept that I have adhd. It’s simply a medical reality of my...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological