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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
2 points

Whilst the fight or flight responses were almost identical, I feel like I experienced both separately. So I didnt notice any correlation between PA improvement and speech improvement. I was (and sti...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
3 points

Depends. If you mean career wise, then no, despite having a stutter I can still get decent jobs. I am disabled from a sexual standpoint as my stutter prevents any sort of flirting....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2021
2 points

I recommend meeting people online, or texting/email first. I find the words that I can’t find an alternative for like the name of my school, siblings and their names, what I’m interested in, just gene...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2021
3 points

I find it’s important to do something that relaxes you on the first date/ gets you out of your comfort zone. If you’re old enough to drink, go out for a drink and get comfortable! I find it’s easier t...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2021
3 points

Yup, feeling out small talk is key for any relationship, especially if you want to see how they'd react to your stutter (most people won't care, the ones that do definitely make it obvious)....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2021
3 points

Honestly, just be yourself. You don't need to tell them about your stutter but if you do maybe it will make you more comfortable = less anxiety. From my experience I've never told any girl that I st...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 11, 2021
15 points

Any tips on dating and meeting new people when you have a stutter?

Any tips on dating and meeting new people when you have a stutter? Graduate school is a weird place, some people are young and some are old. And some people like myself want to start dating. Any tips ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of LifeDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

Dated a girl in high school with a stutter. We’d help each other speak and finish each others sentences it was perfect....

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
2 points

Oh yeah? Fun fact, that's why I even approached him when we were in a party, we went outside, and talked for like 10 minutes just straight about it. I asked him all the questions I had about the gener...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
1 points

You can do it as a dare, make some of your friends dare you to it in a random unexpected time. Maybe it will help. But other than that. I am not even try to date with my stutter so you don't have it a...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
3 points

I'll give that a try! You are absolutely right. I'd do a tour of Iraq just to take her out to dinner!! 🤣...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterAug 7, 2021
21 points

Extremely Nervous to talk to my crush due to stutter

Extremely Nervous to talk to my crush due to stutter Hey Y'all, I've had a slight stutter since I was little. I'm currently 21 and it seems to have gotten worse over the years. The most noticeable thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
1 points

I can't even talk to girls right. It's just makes me so anxious, even more than I should be. It just makes it that much worse. There are no tips and tricks, only when you are completely in peace with ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
2 points

How could she say she loves you without ever hearing you speak? Anyway, my wife and I have been together for 12 years. She says she doesnt even notice it anymore. Frankly, Im more conscious of it tha...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

If she didn't notice your stutter you've either been hiding it really well by speaking in short sentences/being extremely prepared/ or just having a good series of days when you talk to her. It could ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
5 points

It’s the little quirks people like about each other. She won’t care at all. Don’t even let it bother you. If anything tell her you sometimes stutter I guarantee she will completely fine with it Good ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
15 points

How does she not know you stutter? And also if she changes her mind then you don’t need her. If she won’t love you because of that then you really don’t need her....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
5 points

Bro i think about that too much that just thinking about this makes my confidence soo much low. Just be normal and maybe she'd not even notice it or maybe if she does then if she's a good person she w...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

It is oddly specific to want some partner that stutter, not in bad sense, but in case you have the chance to be in that situation. I as a person who stutter I loved when my partner just ignored that s...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
postr/StutterAug 1, 2021
25 points

I want to date someone who stutters

I want to date someone who stutters Hello! Long story short, i want to date someone who stutters and i just want her to feel safe around me. I really care about the things she says, not how she says t...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation