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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

You have to be comfortable in your own shoes. If it's not stuttering it'll be something else. The most perfect looking people have their demons and insecurities. You may assume the worst but people...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
3 points

Smile, it is what it is. Don't assume the worst, even when stuttering. Smile and no need to worry about it. People would worry about anything when approaching girls at the gym. Props for doing it....

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

My ex loved my stutter and found it endearing - i'm pretty in control of my speech for the most part so it's not crazy bad these days, but it was nice to know that she appreciated it as a part of me...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
7 points

I had so many awkward teenage interactions that went bad and I thought death was the only way to get past them. Now I’m 46, looking back and I just laugh at myself. You’ll probably do the same when ...

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postr/StutterJan 26, 2025
8 points

Does anyone else not mind people calling your stutter cute?

Does anyone else not mind people calling your stutter cute? I feel like every time I see this subject brought up on this sub people say that they hate it when people call their stutter cute because it...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
3 points

You didn’t lose any “aura” mate, if anything you gave the rest something to talk about in a positive way. You have a stutter and still did all of that. More than any of the non-stutterers would....

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

I have found that while I sing I don't stutter at all. This isn't useful though as I imagine not many of us would wish to sing our words in day-to-day conversations. I actually became an almost fluent...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Really, Aura??? Anyway, most of the fun in life is dealing with the little problems it throws at you. I too got embarrassed over my stutter one too many times and really started putting effort in to d...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Yes, I am also a person who stutters, and I proudly work as a Software Engineer. This is proof that having a stutter doesn’t limit what we can achieve. Remember, our abilities are far greater than our...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Don't feel guilty. Feel proud that you are how God made you. And remember how many rewards you getting for each word or letter you stutter on. And multiplied. If anything this teaches us patience with...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
5 points

What is the angle of all these posts and comments? Are you writing a book? Have a grant? I don't get it. Whether my stutter is predetermined, undetermined, based on environmental factors or have no ...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
3 points

I was in 5th standard. I stammered like a joke. I was totally lost and felt shattered that day. I conciously took one decision telling "I'm going to be competitive, no matter what" From then I scored...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
2 points

I've seen your other post as well, here's my advice based on my experience - realistically your stuttering will always remain. What is in your control is the feelings you have towards your stuttering....

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
16 points

Aura? Are you for real. A part of having a stutter is knowing how to deal with embarrassing situations without losing your balance. It's probably a more important thing to master rather than speaking ...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

I stutter 25m I have 2 daughters and a beautiful wife who accepts that I stutter. Don’t give up...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

If I had a dollar for every “I’ll never” I’ve said in my life. Lol you are so young and it feels impossible now, but seriously this is only the beginning! Right now it sucks, and some days will feel e...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
2 points

Why is that? Don’t let stutter prevent you to live like any other people. We are stutters and other people have other issues in their lives. So no one is perfect...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

Me, 2 first cousins and an uncle all stutter, it’s commonly known that boys are more likely to Inherit a stutter. I’m still going to have kids regardless, people pass down shitty genes all the time, s...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
3 points

Most of us here have lived with stuttering our entire lives. Not all of us have given up, in fact, most of us also lead normal, fulfilling lives...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

I did a course in the UK called the starfish project that taught costal breathing. Definitely works but found it quite hard to keep going, never quite becomes second nature. Don’t use it at all now, h...

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