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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

You are not a freak. A lot of people are just insecure and don’t know how to act in situations that they are not familiar with. Just stay cool and make a dumb joke about it. Nobody cares in the end. T...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
2 points

You reach a point where you no longer want to live but you find a purpose to keep going. Mine is to spread awareness and educate the ignorant ass people out there and hopefully make a difference....

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
2 points

I think I touched rock bottom at 24, then I took a 2-week program in Italy that changed my life. No magic bullet: for me it was hearing how I was so using stuttering to avoid living my life. It was re...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
2 points

I am 18M too. Started going on my first dates ever with a girl last year. Stuttering is no longer my limiting factor in dating. I advise you to do the usual stuff - get jacked, dress nice, think abou...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
0 points

Yes, stuttering is genetic. There is something *different* about our brains. But does that give us the permission to not be responsible for our problem? Stuttering is our own cross to carry, not anyon...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

Good to hear, that it you also were determined to succeed. I am not a 100% percent fluent now, I don't know for sure if I ever be. Fortunately, that doesn't worry me now. My problem with stuttering ha...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
0 points

I think it's very helpful. Let's suppose you wanted to do something, say ask out someone, but you're not doing it because of your stutter - do it anyways. Don't let your stutter hold you back from stu...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
3 points

Listen - I’ve stuttered ALL MY LIFE and I’m 44 ! When I was younger, I would talk to my dad about it and always remember him telling me , “son , your handsome , smart and funny , let it just be part o...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
1 points

Don't worry! Excellent communication skills doesn't always need to be speaking fluently without breaks. It can also be communicating an idea to someone short, crisp and understandable. This is a trait...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

I’m here because of my son. His stutter is almost every single word. I’ve lived a super f’d up life. Most people would crumble under the things that I have been through, and the things I’ve seen....

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

I had a video interview for an internship where I had to record myself answering several questions that would pop up on a screen, with only a single attempt. It was going so poorly and I was so annoye...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

Hey! Wanted to say, my boyfriend has a stutter, and yeah, he has a gf who loves him a lot. Also, he gets asked out a lot, too! You don't have to feel insecure. Stuttering isn't the only trait you have...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

I didn't have my first relationship till I was 23. Now I am married to someone else. Stuttering is painful for us but potential partners don't care anywhere near as much as we do. Projecting confid...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

This is very innovative and based on sound research evidence. For anyone reading, the key to improving or even overcoming your stuttering is to tackle the approach-avoidance conflict. This is usually ...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
3 points

Confidence is key. I know from experience that if you’re confident with a stutter girls won’t care trust me...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
18 points

I've said all this stuff before on this sub, but it bears repeating: I don't know what the equivalent in Norway is, or even if there is one, but here in the US there's the National Stuttering Associa...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

Never say never. You might find a partner that doesn't give a damn about your stutter. There are plenty of girls like that. I have two daughters and was afraid that they would stutter but it's not the...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
8 points

See also [a summary ](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1icop6k/stuttering_summary_of_uri_schneider_researcher/)of Uri Schneider (SLP/ speech therapist) about the stutter journey, the iceberg ...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

School was a pain!! I hated how I could talk almost normally with my friends, but when the time came to read something publicly or present, I couldn't say more than 3 words at a time. Presentation wer...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

"I’m nearly 50 and this has been my life since age 4. I hate it." - this sentence resonates with me. I hated my life when my stuttering was unchecked. I just said to myself - "I have to get over this ...

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