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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

yes, me too. lately i have been trying to NOT stop me for saying thinks i wanna really wanna say to explain something. sometimes its fucking frustrating when you cant do it but my friends are helping ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

Lol this 100% and if I have the word written down or is in some sort of display, only AFTER I see the other person is actively reading it I can say it fluently...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

It’s ok to feel what you’re feeling. I stutter during my presentations too. Something I began asking professors is if I could record my presentations instead of having to physically speak in front of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

Yes, but because I didn't stutter he might have blown me off. He did prescribe a very common antidepressant that made things worse. My stutter is situational. I stutter badly when trying to explain an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

I’m on the same boat with you, phone calls and talking over a walkie talkie. Usually breathing on the exhale works for me and talking slow but not too slow. Anxiety is still there but since I’m on the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
14 points

asking was good, instead of declaring an assumption that some people do. "can I p... p...." "you can pet him. go on." "no I mean p...." "you can pet him. YOU CAN PE-" or instead of getting o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

I still do this, so I would usually skip “hello” with “hi I’m calling for…etc etc”. It was awkward for me at first but I’ve grown to it as long as it gets things done....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

I also say uhh and um a lot. What worked for me was taking a breath in and speaking on the exhale. And I try to talk slow as well or prolong a word so I don’t stutter on the next one. For example if I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
5 points

I can’t even say my name unless I say “My name is”. I also have blocks here and there. I always start a sentence with ummmm then I start talking, works for me. Or I take a deep breath in and on the ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

I can’t even say my name unless I say “My name is” and I hope so cuz I’m 29F. I also have blocks here and there. I always start a sentence with ummmm then I start talking, works for me. Or I take a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

My last name has always been a thorn in my side. Almost all other words come and go, sometimes I can pronounce them with ease and then an hour later I get a block. The good thing is I can usually se...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
1 points

I’ve had my fair share of presentations and they all went badly. So now I have ADA accommodations for presentations. I only present in front of the instructor or do an alternative assignment. I have t...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Access & RightsAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterMar 19, 2025
8 points

i cant even talk to my family

i cant even talk to my family I have the block stutter, where my throat just tenses up when im about to say something. Before, I can actually talk to my family without stuttering, but now I cant eve...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
1 points

omg this is what I do as well! using the syllable “the”+ (nightmare word) has saved me in some situations....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

I need advice

I need advice I say uhh and um a lot and I also struggle with words that start with B,K,D,P,T. I've tried a lot of things but they seemingly haven't worked, give me some tips and tricks that you've us...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
5 points

I can’t say my own fucking name without having a long ass block. I just started calling myself Smiley lmao fuck it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
5 points

Not a doctor or speech therapist, but I suggest talking with both. The therapist has certainly helped my young son. A doctor could see if beta blockers would be a fit for you. The public speaking issu...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Advice RequestsAvoidance & SubstitutionSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

The good thing about Hirevue is that they usually give you multiple takes to record. I’d use the first couple to practice and “workshop” your answer. I operate best with a framework and the one I use...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

oof all the time. for me, these "nightmare words" are mostly those starting with a consonant (especially words starting with "p" and "c"). it gets so bad that i actively avoid saying any words which i...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2025
1 points

nice to see someone feeling the same way as i do🫂 i dont feel alone anymore. I dont know abt the gaba tho. It isn't available in my area and idk if that's even safe for me (17) haha. If may i ask, wh...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathySituational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution+1 more