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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2023
3 points

I think it all comes down to your confidence level. The university I study at had a PWS as the ex-head of its debating society. The person has "overcome" his stutter in the sense that he is confident ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
3 points

>*"i can’t overcome my stuttering ever"* According to bullet point #11: "don't hope for a cure (aka don't stay in the future)", I believe it's not effective to: 'hope to overcome stuttering or cur...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
2 points

I agree. Practicing stoicism allowed me to be in better control of my emotions. When I'm anxious before a presentation or something like that, I ask myself "Does worrying about this help me in any way...

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postr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
20 points

If you stutter practice stoicism

If you stutter practice stoicism Not caring about things can help you go a long way, You aren't in control of what the fuck happens or is said to you so the only thing you can do is react to those thi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
1 points

Let them find their own confidence, An understanding of your stuttering and accepting it will last longer than short term assurance. The reason why a good amount of stutterers feel isolated and alon...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
6 points

There absolutely is something wrong with our ability to communicate. Rainbows and butterflies are nice to hear, but not practical solutions on how to progress in life. Also, stuttering aside, many...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
1 points

I would say it will work for everyone, but some might have to work much harder than others. This has sometimes been the case with those who basically cannot say anything at all. It is all mind related...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
1 points

Whatever it is, congrats on taking a risk! The placebo effect is a real effect. Meaning that by believing you are getting the drug can actually yield the benefits of the drug, even it's not the drug...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2023
5 points

You don't control your stutter, you don't control other's reactions, but you definitely control how you feel about it. Don't feel nothing, it is what it is...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
1 points

You just gotta go up to someone and join Into their conversation, be like “ really, your right” at like you belong there and eventually you will....

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
2 points

I would encourage you to speak at the rate you like to speak at. Pacing or pausing can be real issues for people who stutter, but I wouldn't suggesting changing your rate if the point of that is to st...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
1 points

That’s why you go to therapy man and figure out how to beat the victim complex. Society will never be nice to people who stutter, that’s life, learn to work through it. It’s gonna take a lot of time a...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
1 points

People giving you these baseless advice in these replies like they're the fucking riddler, If you don't step out of your comfort zone then you're a lost cause. No one's gonna hold your hand through li...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
1 points

That fear goes out when you accept stammering. I am a 21 year old college student, and I've accepted that I stammer. Just be confident, and accept stammering. It will help a lot more. Also, don't be ...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
2 points

Reads like a bit of a pity party to be honest. Also how can we just magically request that every person on earth react positively to our stutter, that's bs we can't control that. But what we can contr...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
6 points

You're young, after school you will likely never see these people again. Just be confident and embrace your stutter, being afraid solved nothing...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
2 points

Don't hate yourself, it is a pointless endeavour. Really think about it, what do you get from it? Now compare what you get out of loving yourself? ❤️...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
7 points

OWN IT. If girls/people judge you over something you can't control, those are not people you want in your life anyway....

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
1 points

If the opposing party doesn't like how my speech sounds, then they can leave or tell me to shut up. Bud it's not your business, to care or think about how a specific version views you. Stop beating a ...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
2 points

Your reaction is your choice. Not anyone else's. Next time, try choosing to be a bit more patient and understanding. You'll get a lot more comfortable with it very quickly....

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