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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
4 points

No I had an ex since high school but we broke up, ever since then I limited myself to talking to girls because of my stutter but I got tired of being alone and said fuck it, created a tinder and hoped...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
5 points

I feel it brother. A big part of a new relationship is conversation for me. I love to talk but I stutter pretty bad sometimes. Just don’t see yourself as your broken voice. All of us here can relate,...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJul 12, 2022
35 points

How it feels to stutter in front of a girl you like(Date with my tutor went well)

How it feels to stutter in front of a girl you like(Date with my tutor went well) ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2022
3 points

I’m the same age and always been told I’m too pretty to be single. I never give anyone a chance because I’m afraid of getting rejected because of my stutter. The things there’s more to looks, you can’...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterJul 5, 2022
4 points

Need help

Need help Hello. Firstly, i apologize for language errors if I make any. English is not my main language I am a 25 year old male, good looking and with a very athletic body ( I train 6x a week). In ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2022
1 points

I’ve been with my bf for 7 years now and not once has he even said anything about my stutter other than I’m so brave and have so much courage! Use social media first that’s what I did as I was scared ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
1 points

When I was in college, I randomly met my wife by sitting with her for a meal in the school's cafeteria. That was over 22 years ago! Go out of your comfort zone and explore/met new people. Those who th...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
2 points

Severe, sometimes almost to the point of calling it a disability. My stuttering has ruined many things for me. Sure, I have a learning disability, avoidant personality disorder, PTSD and OCD, all of w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
-5 points

I'm sorry if I give that impression because that is not the intention at all! I have talked with multiple stutterers over time and no matter how kind I am and how much I want to attract them, no one s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
1 points

Had two long term girlfriends. Broke up with one yesterday actually, haha. I met the first one in person and I was always transparent about my stutter. I met the other one online, but met in person q...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
1 points

I would say that online dating is the best way for us men who stutter since approaching women directly means almost always a high degree of tension and anxiety which makes (severe) stuttering more lik...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
2 points

My brothers stutter is pretty bad. He jerks and can barely get through sentences too. He is married now, and had lots of girlfriends growing up. There are girls out there who don’t care, I assure you....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
3 points

Don't let your stutter keep you from finding someone to love. Oddly all the women I've been with find my stutter cute even though I hate it. I stutter pretty bad. Difficult to get through a sentence ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
16 points

I met my SO on Hinge. We hit it off over text, and when we started making plans to meet, I dropped a “by the way, I have a stutter. Sometimes it’s difficult for me to speak when I’m first getting to k...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
5 points

This is a tough one. A personal story here...I was married before,ironically to a mild stutterer, so she was understanding of my limitations. But before her and after her have been a bit of a struggle...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

Meeting women is a struggle for everyone. You'll just have to meet someone at work/school, social events, online, etc. If you have a dating app, make it known that you stutter. And don't make it a neg...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
2 points

The biggest thing that helped me with making new friends and talking to women was finding other ways to express myself that didn’t use words. I got into magic/illusions and it was a way for me to brea...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
3 points

Where should I look? I feel like I don't know where to meet women, but admittedly apart from dating apps I've only halfheartedly tried....

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
5 points

I agree with this completely. I have a stutter and a lot of time I look like an idiot because the length of time in which it takes for me to say one sentence is sometimes ridiculous. But as my girlfri...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Physical TensionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2022
4 points

Thinking about relationships fills me with despair. There's a girl I really like, and she's pretty nice to me, but I just freaking can't speak. Everyone says "find a girl who doesn't care about your s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment