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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
6 points

Your “don’t prioritise fluency” is really good! Rather than focusing on being fluent, focus should really be on your answer! Another thing that helps me in interview situations is starting out by dis...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterJul 2, 2022
11 points

Introductions

Introductions Met two new people yesterday and had a block while saying my name. The guy I met just looked at me funny. The girl was cool. Anyone have any advice on how to do better with this? I am ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

Already explained it. It's nothing I'm embarrassed about, and I'd rather people know I have a medical condition than thinking I'm nervous or drunk or something...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

Why should you introduce it? People will typically expect you to stutter more or maybe reject you. Even you might end up stuttering more....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

It's a cool idea and I've been trying for quite a while until a kid that studied with me noticed and nearly embarrassed me 😂 but still that's a good technique, shall try it once more....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

Perhaps we do it to avoid potential taunting. I figure if people understand that piece of me, they might have a bit of empathy rather than judgement....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

Actually I was taught the technique once of introducing yourself as "My name is xx, and I stutter", which seemed to work quite well because it relieved upfront some of the apprehension of getting stuc...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
3 points

Have you ever acknowledged that you stutter before talking to customers? Try it. And keep eye contact. If “shoppers of Walmart” can mostly be decent, I bet you’ll have a similar experience. Here’...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

Well, my go to is that “I stutter”, but if I’m not feeling confident in being able to say that I’ll go with “I have a speech impediment”. Regardless they usually tell me that I stutter before I’m able...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJun 30, 2022
33 points

Speech Blocks are ruining my life...

Speech Blocks are ruining my life... Got a call and I was unable to say my name. I hate being like this. I can talk and I have no issues regarding that but when it comes to saying my name, it's always...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
5 points

I find it helpful to do sometimes. For instance, if I'm doing a presentation to people that I don't know, I say "Just as a fair warning, I am speech disabled, so I appreciate your patience." Otherwise...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
9 points

I've never 'introduced' my stutter, though I have mentioned it to others (only close friends/family) after I've had a block or stutter...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
1 points

Noted. I usually just tell people I have a “stutter” to save the listener from any confusion, but that’s good to know!...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
1 points

Had two long term girlfriends. Broke up with one yesterday actually, haha. I met the first one in person and I was always transparent about my stutter. I met the other one online, but met in person q...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

Yes, but almost in the opposite way. If I talk about struggling with a speech disability during an interview, I feel like most people take that as a positive to me...

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Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
4 points

Not trying to sound arrogant. But I've been offered pretty much every job I've ever interviewed for. I have moderate stutter but I've accepted myself as a stutterer. I just always start every intervi...

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Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 29, 2022
39 points

How I find Confidence

How I find Confidence As a stutterer, I find it hard to find the confidence in myself to speak up for myself, and others. I go to a local gun range to shoot trap once a week. This particular day we h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
1 points

Well, with that same thought, i tell people immediately. If you don't replace words for substitutes you won't come over as dumb. They just give you more time. When you talk to them more often they wil...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
5 points

I hope this catches you before you go in. The Majority of people don't care that you stutter. They care that you care you stutter. You stutter, you can't hide it. Just be honest. Say you are nervou...

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Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
10 points

Good luck lad, try to remember no one’s bothered how you say something they will be looking at what you say - it’s okay to take your time with words, if you begin by disclosing that you suffer with ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others