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postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
22 points

Toxic shame as a result of stuttering/social anxiety

Toxic shame as a result of stuttering/social anxiety I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting lately and realized that my stutter has shaped the way I see myself in a much deeper way than I ever imagined. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
31 points

Going to doctors is the worst 🤦🏻‍♀️

Going to doctors is the worst 🤦🏻‍♀️ Went up to check in and got stuck on my last name and said sorry to the desk lady. My mom had to say it for me, but she always gets irritated when I get stuck on ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
3 points

Healthcare workers pls give a girl some advice and words of encouragement.

Healthcare workers pls give a girl some advice and words of encouragement. Hey so I have a question for anyone who works in healthcare as a stutter. I am a student who works in a field of healthcare t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
3 points

Think i had a panic attack

Think i had a panic attack So I graduated from uni last year and it’s almost been a whole year since i started looking for a job in my field of study. I had some interviews for very cool positions but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2025
1 points

Please be aware that dysfluency combined with significant anxiety can indeed make communication nearly impossible. It’s quite common for blocks to be so severe, you give up, and say something differe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2025
1 points

I feel you , I grew up in Los Angeles and some cops use to hunt us young black males the years I grew up there yrs 80's-2000's. I stuttered in front of cops all the time when i was pulled over some no...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
11 points

Those raised by or involved with narcissists, how are you dealing with your stutter?

Those raised by or involved with narcissists, how are you dealing with your stutter? If my stuttering didn't affect me out of the blue, I'd still be more social. Now I'm introverted as a result of it....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
11 points

I used to be top 40 in Valorant. I stutter. And I had to let go of my dream.

I used to be top 40 in Valorant. I stutter. And I had to let go of my dream. Hello, this is my first time ever making a post on reddit and I felt like I wanted to share my story as someone whos lived ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
6 points

I also Stutter in front of large group of people, I think it's a kind of social and performance anxiety (you feel anxious when you have to 'perform' in front of large group of people). Nevertheless,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 3, 2025
15 points

Struggling due to new job role

Struggling due to new job role Hi Everyone, I am a 42-year-old male who has stuttered since I was 8 or 9. I usually only stutter if I have to speak to a large group of people, but I also stutter a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
3 points

Ah I can understand that. I frequented a Buddhist temple for a long time and we also had to read in front of each other. My stutter was way worst back then so it tested our patience for sure! Try to k...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
2 points

Thank you! Frankly, the people around me aren’t very patient or understanding with me. Quite the opposite really. When I read in front of them it’s not because they wanna hear me, it’s because I’m cal...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
3 points

Reading works as a speech muscle practice. Reading in front of mirror helps a lot. But don't expect much result in real life scenarios when you experience anxiety or self doubt. For real life focus ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
3 points

Reading out loud in general is useful. If you're already pretty fluent by yourself, it means the nerves are simply getting to you when other people are around. That's something very common as public s...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2025
3 points

That’s so very thoughtful of you to post this question 💙 I think it depends on individual. For example, my main struggle at work is time pressure during calls and meetings, and I actually prefer to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2025
2 points

It’s called “Voluntary Stuttering” and lets you be in control of how and when you choose to stutter. My daughter does this occasionally. She chooses places where it can be hard (ordering a drink at St...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2025
5 points

I understand 100% what you're going through, I've also struggled saying my name in the past. It felt so humiliating when I had to present myself in front of the whole class when I was at uni. I had ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2025
6 points

Hi I’m sorry you are dealing with this. The stress of the move must have you an anxiety ridden. Have you ever tried anti anxiety meds like lexapro? They may help you calm down...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2025
6 points

Glad to see a fellow brother here :) I went to a party this Saturday night with my husband and my brother in law. I was so uncomfortable and 3 people came to talk to me just for asking my name and si...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 2, 2025
21 points

Does it ever get better?

Does it ever get better? Hey, I am 25 years old and have been stuttering since I was 4 years old. Between the ages of 5 and 6, I stopped stuttering but started stuttering again. I always managed to h...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more