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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2014
2 points

This is an inspiring post I really admire your mindset! (Aside: Strong username to post content dis-correlation) :P ...

commentr/StutterJan 27, 2014
6 points

I truly feel for you, I completely understand how you feel. I am 20 and in college and it feels horrible to be passed over for internships in my field (Kinda computer sciency) because I don't convey c...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
5 points

Damn, sounds like a really rough time man. Ive stuttered openly all my life, but I have a lot of friends who are covert stutterers. Despite my severe disfluencies, I cant imagine having to deal with t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 26, 2014
14 points

Stuttering;Disconnect

Stuttering;Disconnect Living as a covert stutter for 20 years has left me with a catastrophic hole in my spirit, connection to others has been skewed for so much of my life that I feel completely inhu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
3 points

What you're doing is right. Most stutters I know dont want special treatment but basic respect, which is exactly what you're doing. Honestly, I wouldnt overthink it and try not to care. If the listene...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
3 points

I agree with this, to a point -- triggering "the talk" can be confrontational. As such, is best done in the presence of an established rapport. So, the first time you meet someone isn't always the tim...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
5 points

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
4 points

It is absolutely proper etiquette. Just don't seem impatient and try to egg him to finish, that is the worst.I work in retail, so i'm talking to people all day long. The majority of them are fairly ch...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
8 points

*Yes,it is the right etiquette.But you shouldn't exactly pretend like he doesn't stutter,you should acknowledge it and make him know that you do and it's okay.It will make it easier for him because it...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
postr/StutterJan 26, 2014
8 points

How should I respond/act with people who stutter when I personally do not?

How should I respond/act with people who stutter when I personally do not? There's a guy who comes into my work and he occasionally stutters. Normally it's when placing an order and rarely when saying...

Social & Relationships
Listener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
5 points

I have a master's degree in anatomical pathology. Had a job in a medical examiner's office for a bit and it was awesome. Then due to budget cuts, I was first to lose my job. That was over two years ag...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
6 points

Personally, I've found that the more you try and plan your sentence or you think it over in your head, the more you end up setting yourself up to stutter. The less concious you are about it and the le...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
1 points

I should also point out that I'm applying to the sheriff department to be a deputy. My stuttering isn't severe as others but I do still have that feeling of fear and hope one day to get rid of it. Do...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

I think it's all in the mind. Even though I don't stutter as much anymore, I still have that feeling of fear or failing; that I won't be able to speak fluently. I need to get rid of that fear, but I d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
1 points

Yeah, i wont tear up or anything but I can't just sit there and watch. it's really difficult. Ive always been really open about my stuttering but I know theres a big part of me thats still very uncomf...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
1 points

This sounds a lot like my situation. It was pretty brutal for me too, took me a year to find work. I dont know how job hunting goes in the UK, but here (US) we use online applications a LOT. Monster.c...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

Can you post your results after this program is analyzed? And for the record, I agree with your beliefs on primary factors for stuttering. Learning to change our subconscious I feel would be a key be...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Research & ResourcesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
3 points

No they don't, they just talk. They never had a need to think how to speak, only what they want to say. If there is anyone out there who knows how to become completely unself conscious, please let me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

How do fluent people think before they speak?

How do fluent people think before they speak? It seems to me if I rehearse in my head what I wish to say, I will block on some words or I can't even get the sentence started. However, sometimes if I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
1 points

Can't get a job? Become self employed!...