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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2014
1 points

Agreed, this by no means cures stuttering. I'm also aware that my current improved speech will not sustain. However, if this opens my mind to other areas of self improvement then I'm a happy man. For ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2014
1 points

Maybe it is, I don't know. All I know is after a while of using "My name is-" I'm able to introduce myself without beginning with that. I can now say, "Jim" or "I'm Jim." without issue, in public, i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2014
2 points

This is an avoiding technique. I'm not sure it's better than actually stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2014
1 points

I worked at a pizza place where I was expo (taking them out of the oven and slicing them) which didn't require me to speak much except for yelling "Hot pie" when I was done with an order. They switch...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2014
1 points

i'm going through the same problem right now. gonna be starting university after summer and have been stressing about how i'm gonna get my name out to all the people that will be asking me. So far the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2014
1 points

I recently had to do this to record a voicemail - I'll admit my heart did drop a bit when I played it back and had to deal with (Ill be honest, slight) stutters getting in the way. But I know to anyon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2014
2 points

I used to stutter my name out. But instead of saying just my name I go. "my name's jim" "my name is jim" I start with "my name is" because I'm sort of introducing myself. Get used to introducing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2014
2 points

Well i think the vast majority of people (stutterers included) are experts in breathing. we've been doing it perfectly well all our lives. But sometimes we can interfere with the breathing process as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2014
1 points

you're avoiding facing your fear head on and using a workaround which is avoiding. A lot of PWS do avoid and it only reinforces the fear they have in stuttering. Tricks and workaround dont give you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2014
1 points

Yes, it can be seen as an avoidance behavior although I personally tend to rather see it as a workaround. You're not avoiding the situation, you're using technology to your advantage to get involved ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2014
2 points

Is this on the /r/ sound in the beginning of a word? A lisp occurs on an /s/ or "th" sound (sounds that are in the front portion of the mouth) typically so I would not believe that you are avoiding a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2014
2 points

I have thought about this before, but i just keep reminding myself this is an avoidance behavior that will only hurt you in the long run. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2014
1 points

Yeah, I know what you mean: I used to think that way and it will probably comes with shame for me too... However, I sort of am changing mindsets now because the situation is that I have to make calls...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2014
4 points

Do whatever works for you, but for me the shame of having to use a soundboard of myself would far surpass that of blocking for some reason. I'm having a hard time "coming out" in my daily life as well...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2014
2 points

I just want to piggyback and say that everything that Tim just said is spot on, imo. Learning that there are options other than fluency can be incredibly liberating. We need to remember that stutterin...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2014
5 points

I'm 41, also stammered my while life. I did the rounds of speech therapy as a kid and it gave me absolutely nothing. The fact that they discharged you shows how poorly it's treated on the NHS. A few y...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2014
2 points

For me, it's all about knowing what you can and cant say. funnily enough I can't say the word stutter. So I replace it with "speech impediment" or "stammer". I find myself doing this whole sentence...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2014
1 points

If I'm having trouble, I'll write the sentence I want to say out in my head and then read it like a script. If I'm *really* having trouble with a block, I'll use a starter word, like "it's" or "dude" ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2014
1 points

My son is 8 and I am in this group for him. My advice to him has been to always say exactly what he wants to in his thoughts first. This means a delay when he is responding but it prevents him from st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionHome Support
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2014
2 points

Certain words I substitute, but I can't always substitute. I can't say 'remember' all the time, so I will say 'recall' as its easier to say. Try and take tactical pauses as well and take a breath or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques