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postr/StutterMar 16, 2024
17 points

GAHHHHHHHHHHHH

GAHHHHHHHHHHHH I HATE MY FUCKING STUTTER IT RUINS EVERYTHING I HATE MY LIFE...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2024
2 points

I always experience this. Life is so hard for me.. but i keep on fighting for i have no choice. 😢...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
2 points

Both parents stutter, plus dad has neurotic ticks. Problem was not that they did stutter, problem is they are highly nervous and self-conscious about it/me growing up dealing with that. They ignored ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
9 points

When I was younger (Gen X) and my stutter was more severe, I barely made it through interviews. I was passed over for many jobs. I could usually pick up on body language when I knew they weren’t inter...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2024
3 points

Did they say why you were denied? Was it the stutter? Either way, man, your career is no joke. It's amazing. I'm glad you preserved....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2024
3 points

I wanted to be in the army, 6 months from commissioning, I was denied, no waiver possible. I was so angry, but I made a difference in this world as I could....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 11, 2024
31 points

Has anyone else found it difficult to be assertive with a stutter?

Has anyone else found it difficult to be assertive with a stutter? ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2024
2 points

At the same exact position as you right now. I don’t really see myself getting a job anytime soon. Speech therapy doesn’t help, and I’m only two years away from being an adult. I can’t even say my nam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

>It's so severe to the point where it's better if I just didn’t say anything at all Then why dont you not say anything at all? People are mute and they exist. Stuttering is frustrating af bcs its stu...

Emotional ExperienceMeta
Helplessness & AgencyNot About Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
7 points

I've been there man! But I felt that your will is might be stronger that this this disablility. Just bounce back...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

I have started believing in Antinatalism

I have started believing in Antinatalism Life is a pure gamble. There are many people who are healthy and fine. And there are some people with stammering, cancer, Alzheimer's diseases, blind , paraly...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I was freezing up in the weirdest way with my friend in an obnoxiously loud restaurant. I beating my thoughts of being nervous but I felt u was more so fighting myself physically to get words out to...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I feel you bro. K’s the worst especially when my name starts with a K sound. Had to host a large meeting today and I just went full stuttering. I have to say to myself that I did good. Like running a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I don't disagree. If you are happy with a job where you don't have to talk much, by all means go for it! But if you are only doing something because you stutter and you don't think you're able to do w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

You know I’m not really even sure it’s been so long. I’ve given up on wanting to be so many things because of having a stutter that I’m literally at a crossroads at 41, old as hell but still looking t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

I’d be happy as a parking attendant lol. It’s not about pride with me it’s just the having to constantly speak to the public, which leaves me out of breath and about to pass out sometimes....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
7 points

There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with settling for a basic job, most people do! The primary difference for a stutterer is that we come pre-equipped with an excuse to settle, whereas other people ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
3 points

What kind of work/ career would you like to of got into if you didn't have a stutter? this curse we have is completely life changing, it effects almost every decision in our lives on a daily basis, ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
17 points

Actually I see people on here saying they work at call centres, I've no idea how, anyhow I kissed goodbye to any proper carrer, all I've been doing is drifting from one dead end, low paid job to a...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 8, 2024
3 points

To people who quit their job without another job lined up, how did you manage to do that?

To people who quit their job without another job lined up, how did you manage to do that? I can't imagine myself resigning from my job without another job lined up especially that we have a speech con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career