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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2014
1 points

I'm completely open about it. I don't make it a point to go up to random strangers or anything, but if I'm speaking with someone I don't know and feel like I'm about to have problems with a word, I ju...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

I may be a unique case. I have my ups and downs for fluency, but I usually don't concede that anything is wrong with my speech. I'm okay with people knowing that I stutter, but if I'm meeting new peop...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

Obe, you've hit the bullseye. I think that's the key, you've got to own it and not let it own you. I wish you the best of luck. Im not very open but im working on it. Trying to hold eye contact, get ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I cannot tell you how much I love this. I wish I could up vote it more....

commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I have no doubt there's an NSA chapter in Boston. http://www.westutter.org/find-an-nsa-meeting-near-you/Massachusetts/ Chapters are really welcoming places where you can meet other people who stutter...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
3 points

I'm open enough if I'm talking to somebody if it makes sense. The other day I had an interview, so I told them at the start when I started having some trouble. If I'm at a store and ask where someth...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I have problems with anxiety too, and I'm just now making my first effort to address it - I recently started therapy. I agree, anxiety does not cause my stutter but it does make it worse. Amazingly, I...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
7 points

Being more open helps a lot! While being anxious (used here in the general, non-medical sense though I do also have GAD) doesn't cause stuttering it can exacerbate it for lots of people. Ironically on...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

I find it hard to broach the subject, but it really helps when it is out there. Go for it!...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterSep 1, 2014
7 points

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help?

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help? I usually only speak to my family and close friends about my stutter. I'm sure the I people see on a regular basis know I have a stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I'm away at college right now but usually I'm a train ride away from Boston...

commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

Link me a pdf and I'll add it....

commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

Yes, a lot of people. I think connecting with other stutterers is one of the most helpful things for us. Where are you from? there are support groups or other types of groups out there. I recommend yo...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingResearch & ResourcesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

Yes lots. I had a close friend in high school that did. Also, you'll meet tons if you go to a NSA convention. I was one of the few people there that did not stutter... I felt very out-of-place....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

Yes, several. One in middle school (we became goof friends), a classmate in college, and another classmate, this one a girl, who accomplished a lot in her four years. I also know a lot of people who I...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I try to think of short questions that require really long answers on their part. That way I don't have to talk as much, and they're on the spot. I've done a lot of interviews on the phone (with a ba...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I've only met a couple of stutterers, but none had the impediment I have (silent blocks) and it's also just extremely uncomfortable for some reason ...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

i met one guy while I was waiting table back in college.He was going with his female friends. Since I got used to the job, I didn't appear to be stuttering when I took his orders. Boys, did he stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

Once, while at work. He was a Co worker. I told him I noticed it and that I stutter sometimes too....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

What you wrote is quite inspiring, I am glad you were able to get to a place where you feel comfortable in your own skin and able to say what you want to say when you want to say it. I am 21 years ol...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more