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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
1 points

Haha, no worries! I was just curious because I couldn't find it!...

postr/StutterSep 18, 2014
5 points

Confidence

Confidence I often see people write that "confidence" is directly relevant to stuttering. Or establishing "confidence" is necessary (and sufficient?) to overcoming stuttering. There was a very inter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
1 points

No not yet. I'm about to. I was up to my elbows in matlab all day :-/...

commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
4 points

That's what it's all about, my friend. When your stutter no longer holds you back, it's no longer a disorder....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
3 points

I share your pain. First time poster in the sub, but long time lurker. I struggle to hold a meaningful conversation sometimes. The words just won't come out of my head. They just get stuck. I have a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

(just to be sure, >PWS People With Stuttering? haven't seen the abbreviation before.) funny thing, now that you mention phones. i tend to want to _avoid_ phones. conversation is typically an eff...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

You make a very good first point. But I still have many aspects in my life that I allow my speech to affect me. I still use it as an excuse when I don't want to talk to people. I just graduated with a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

maybe it's even the other way around - like, you got confident _becase_ you got better at handling your speech... not that we need to establish causal orders to discuss these concepts, of course. may...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
1 points

Did you make a new thread?...

commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

You might just be one voice, but I'm sure there are many others who will see the piece the same way that you do, and I want to make it available to all audiences. When I get a chance, I will take a fi...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

well, i'm just _one_ voice. don't feel like you have to take the criticism, just because it's there. might just be the way _i_ look at things. like, [i was writing something for another OP over here]...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

i'd rather not want to see people writing in here getting "diagnosed" by redditors. i mean, "social anxiety" is rather specific. we should at least get more information from OP, and even then, i feel ...

Community & Support
Advice Requests
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
1 points

Seems the problem here isnt actually your stuttering, its good old social anxiety. And the only thing that really helps there is exposure. I know its hard, but try to not focus on yourself while in a...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

I totally get what you mean and where you're coming from now. Thank you for clarifying that. I must not have wrote as clearly as I thought I did (a very common problem for me). I didn't mean for it ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
1 points

right, so, there's a couple of things we need to take a look at here. first of all, i'd like you to reflect on what exactly goes on "in your head" when you're speaking, or trying to speak, as it were...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2014
2 points

you go ahead and post in whichever manner you like! :) feel free to refer to this subthread in particular, just so neither of us have to repeat ourselves (as we all now, _repetition_ can be... dull). ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2014
2 points

So, if I can jump in here .... I think this is a very valuable discussion. I think you've both made some points that I would agree with and some that I would disagree with. I think this conversation...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 17, 2014
11 points

Stuttering and Conversation

Stuttering and Conversation I'm tired of this. If you knew me, you might say my stuttering isn't that bad. "I barely hear you stutter". Alright then, I guess I'm a covert stutterer. Life is great rig...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2014
1 points

I'm also in high school! its pretty rough with presentations, group projects, and class discussions. ...

commentr/StutterSep 17, 2014
3 points

Rule sticky's are always good. In regards to rule #2, i think some people just need an accepting place where they can come and vent frustrations to people who understand that they might not be able t...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger