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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

you're going to feel that way about a lot of things. and if you'd rather not embarrass yourself than speak all the time, you might not be saying much at all....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

The staff works in a noisy environment and struggle to hear normal people speak over the sound of a running engine. I always save them some grief and have my SO order. Yes it is healthy to help each o...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I currently work at staples. I do talk to people, tell them where things are and any other assistance they may need. Although I am not stutter or anxiety free, it helps when people approach you and yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

hahah I like the motto, but I find being around people who are talkative and chattery just exacerbates my fear of stuttering and that fear of breaking up a conversation and being the awkward moment wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

"healthy"? it's just _handy_, teamwork and all. compare to asking a buddy with a broken leg to go fetch the pizzas. i dodge plenty of needs for phone calls when in plenum this way. not really seein...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
2 points

It's much easier for me to tell somebody else "any job. If you have to talk a lot it's going to help you", but I do have to be at least somewhat sympathetic because I was in the same situation. I wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

I dont think you should over do it but having a job and getting some experience working with/around people is good. You can just start slow if you'd like. I worked at a drug store in high school, stoc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

If its a window drive through I will order for myself. If it's those talk-boxes I just drive through and don't stop or go in to the restaurant instead ...

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Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 5, 2014
7 points

My gf orders for me at the drive thru. Is that healthy?

My gf orders for me at the drive thru. Is that healthy? I feel like I should do it myself but I don't want to embarrass myself lol. She doesn't care of course, and it calls it cute but I rather save t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2014
3 points

yea I have known this for a long time, it's been a dilehmma of wanting good speech or wanting to get high, I often chose getting high for many reasons, all of which seem self destructive. I am going t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2014
3 points

I have been trapped in my little bubble for so long, man. I'm at college, 3rd year, but all of my friends have left and so it was just me. I panicked because my habits (smoking weed) does not help my ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2014
1 points

I usually stand up and try not be around other people. I may go into another bedroom or outside. Getting it over with as you say is a good idea. Before making a call to someone who I don't know (or do...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

I sometimes feel that people might think my Spanish is bad since I stutter and it may seem like I don't want what to say/what I'm saying. It sometimes makes me self-conscience when I speak to other pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

Walking around, outside if possible, with no one around me in case I need to pretend the call signal messed up while I am stuck in a block. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

I speak better on the phone vs face to face especially with unknown persons . I think the reason is that i know probably i will never met that person or speak to it again ,so i don't really care if i ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

I walk around on the phone as well. If I'm having a hard time, sometimes I'll try to pace my speech with my walk. I feel that it helps me slow down. When I'm at the office I often try and avoid usin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterNov 2, 2014
11 points

The dreaded telephone

The dreaded telephone Being a life long stutterer, I know first hand the telephone phobia most of us develop over time. Those awkward moments when your blocking on a word and the person thinks the cal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2014
1 points

I'm 30 yrs old. Still stutter but now I can mask it really well. I can switch phrases really fast and I have a blocking stutter most of the time where it's at the beginning of phrases or words with ce...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2014
1 points

Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I can conquer the voice, sometimes not. The quote about the chasm sent shivers down me when I first read it - the narrator is a zombie who's still got hi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2014
1 points

omg this is an amazing quote. It got to me hard. I am, with validation from my English professor, a really good writer and I feel this way all of the time, but I thought about it. I'm what's preventin...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring