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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
2 points

Yep, as soon as you're aware that people are looking at you, it's like you're looking at yourself through their eyes. Then, you realise you've been stuttering for the past 5 seconds and have no idea w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
1 points

I just hate the thought of people laughthing at me but in general I do fine with my stuttering just in front of big crowds where there are a lot of adults who look important I stutter and get ner...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
2 points

I feel you. The best advice I can give is to do things without thinking about them, it'll help you worry less and prepare more for something you really want to do. My original example isn't a good e...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
1 points

Yeah I do that often sadly but I cant change it :/...

postr/StutterMar 18, 2015
7 points

Ever passed on an event / opportunity because you were nervous about stuttering?

Ever passed on an event / opportunity because you were nervous about stuttering? I've had a stutter my whole life, and it's never made that much of an impact until I realised I was saying no to opport...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
1 points

Birthdays have been a struggle for me too. You can get around it with "13th of August" or "13th of the 8th". I had problems with "friends" laughing at me in high school too. It just makes you realise ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

Sorry to hear that, don't be hard on yourself. The more situations like these you face, the more you'll learn about your stuttering behavior and develop the habits to control dis-fluency. Go to speech...

Community & SupportTherapy & Professional
Advice RequestsTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
2 points

The "name game" is the bane of my existence. ...

commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
2 points

you certainly cant ignore this. more than likely you will not be selected for jury duty. if you are initially selected to be in the jury pool you can voice your concerns regarding stuttering to the ju...

School & Work
Access & Rights
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

hey man, also 16 and same in normal conversations I can usually go fine with talking to people but sometimes with those specific words, names, birthdays, etc... its just tough to deal with it. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

That's hard, man. I know exactly how you feel. For me, it was always when we had to go around the room and say our first name. If they did not know that you had the problem, then you should be happy a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you will work hard to keep this incident in perspective. I don't mean that you should forget it, but, that you don't let it blot out all the amazing things yo...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
postr/StutterMar 17, 2015
5 points

Today hit me hard

Today hit me hard I am 16 years old, a normal guy. But one who has a stutter. I made it all the way through my semester speaking fluently until today when I had to say my birthday and I just froze and...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & StoppagesStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

I think it'd be a good idea for you to try some therapy - and even some _speech_ therapy afterwards/simultaneously. There's rarely a singular explanation, but yours certainly sounds like it was a maj...

Therapy & Professional
Seeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

thanks!...

commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

In California you can be excused for medical reasons. > To have your request considered, you must send a detailed written explanation AND include recent letter from your health care provider to: ...

School & Work
Access & Rights
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

Totally off topic, but why is it that I see a +1 next to your name? ...

commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
3 points

yeah you cant ignore things like this. you dont have to be the lead juror though....

commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
2 points

Its pretty rare for a child to suddenly start stuttering at the age of 12, so this event may have been a factor. I think the feelings of feeling small and not as worthy as others is pretty common and...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2015
1 points

I guess my question is, why the anxiety? Are you American? What are you afraid will happen?...