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postr/StutterApr 25, 2015
9 points

I never stutter when talking to myself.. Rarely with friends.. Always with my family/strangers?!

I never stutter when talking to myself.. Rarely with friends.. Always with my family/strangers?! How does this make sense? When i'm talking to myself or whatever, (thinking etc, you get the jist), i n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2015
3 points

I know, it was a victory, but Id rather figure out how to prevent it in the first place. I cant even say its because I havent inhaled yet because Ive gotten stuck with a full breath. It comes and goes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2015
3 points

I just joined reddit itself several days ago hah and I happen to stutter as well. Im 24 and have stuttered my whole life. Up until highschool my stutter didn't really affect me psychologically but now...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2015
3 points

Hah seriously that is strange. It's great to see someone so similar to me have this problem resolved, it's going to really motivate me to do the same. As for holding it in, I definitely used and it re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2015
3 points

Wow I only found this subreddit today too, that's weird! Yeah I'd love to offer some advice! I'll try to organise the answers the best I can. First of all, our situations seem to be very similar. I'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2015
1 points

> I'm also going to sit for interviews with startups where they can't afford to have someone like me. This is a fallacy. If they need you they need you. Whether or not you stutter is a secondary...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2015
1 points

I like the idea. I did this as a kid reading in class and now that its coming back to me as an adult, I've been trying to use it. I say use it on words you know you may have trouble with. That way the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2015
1 points

Thanks man, I am currently trying to balance schoolwork and online programming classes but is getting harder and harder, I think I can manage it though. Same with music, although I haven't played guit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2015
3 points

I actually haven't really progressed. I skipped a party organized by my University and I'm struggling with attending classes at the moment, I dont know if it's because of my stutter or because I dont ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2015
1 points

If you really have a severe stutter, how do you think you're going to hide it when they do hire you? When they figure it out then, I can assure you they won't be happy with the bait and switch you pul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2015
2 points

This is really only a decision you can make, but I have a couple thoughts 1) Can you maintain the accent throughout the entire interview? What are they going to think if the way you talk suddenly cha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2015
1 points

Strategy's the best one I've tried to date. Went to speech therapy for quite a few years and just felt stupid. I want to try to solve this on my own. I want to believe it's a mind over matter deal. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2015
4 points

Graduating college May 16th with an accounting degree! I'm absolutely motivated and excited to launch my career, I just need to practice not freaking the fuck out during interviews. My speech has been...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 17, 2015
5 points

Severe stutter when I'm not interested in a conversation!! Is anyone in the same situation?

Severe stutter when I'm not interested in a conversation!! Is anyone in the same situation? For example early in the morning when I'm sleepy and I get a call or when I'm too tired to talk to anyone or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2015
2 points

It sounds like you're psyching yourself out. and you're doing it to protect yourself. and I use humor much the same way. Anyway, it is scary and nervous but that's good. you dont want to be comfortab...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 16, 2015
3 points

So I'm starting work experience tomorrow...

So I'm starting work experience tomorrow... I'm 21 and I've never had a job, I've let my stutter hold me back and I suck for it. Not looking for sympathy, it's my fault, but it's somewhat relevant to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2015
2 points

I always tell about my stuttering beforehand. The problem I find is that people dont know what it actualy means, at least not for me anyway. The main problem for me isnt that I get stuck on words, its...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2015
1 points

Plan out your main convo, and it'll be easier. I used to have a 'go-to' list of first date questions and convo. Ex: What 3 superpowers would you choose, which animal ability would you want most? Be ch...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2015
1 points

I try to meet new people and to talk a lot, even if it's way out of my comfort zone. Last year for example: i went alone to a festival and just tried to have a good time meeting new people....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 15, 2015
2 points

So, should I cancel a date?

So, should I cancel a date? Been going thru a rough time, have had a couple of big life changes the last year or so, one is a breakup with my gf since like 5 years. Things been adding up and I have ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more