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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
5 points

Yeah, I think its because Im usually pretty good in about everything, so being really bad in something everyone else can do automatically just feels so bad. When I stutter it also feels like I failed...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
4 points

Sounds like you might have some internal feelings you need to get in touch with. Start letting some of what you have dammed up out....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMay 5, 2024
12 points

I have a presentation in 2 weeks but I always start crying

I have a presentation in 2 weeks but I always start crying So I gotta give a presentation in 2 weeks. Its only 15 minutes so its not that bad, but I just lately realised that the stutter itself is not...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
10 points

Yeah there's plenty a time I've considered been mute would of been easier, the embrassment of stuttering is something I've never overcome.. I only speak now when I really have to, if I do try to j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterMay 4, 2024
12 points

I'm an alien boy who got stuck in this world

I'm an alien boy who got stuck in this world When I was 7 or 8 years old, I consumed a lot of Chyawanprash (which is a warm herbal tonic), which caused me constipation and speech difficulties. I start...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
14 points

Quite the age, in other words old, lol.. My 20s, quite a while ago but just like my teens was hard going, I couldn't get a job, was quite a loner, what friends I did gave was into pubs, night...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
1 points

Even I didn't care at first but saw some people started making fun of me that's when I realised I'm in a deepshit...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
1 points

I’m sorry this happened—it truly sucks. This has been my entire school experience from elementary school to university. I grew up at a time and place in which teachers would test students by having th...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2024
13 points

I think it's important that anybody with a disability recognizes that it isn't their fault. There's no shame. No recriminations. People with stutters often direct a lot of their anger and frustratio...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 1, 2024
14 points

I hate this

I hate this I try to speak but I can’t breath correctly when I try to breathe correctly but when I do try to breathe correctly I over breathe and almost always hate myself. I tried to be normal and ta...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 30, 2024
9 points

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Covert and overt stuttering: Concepts and comparative findings" (2022)

Tips to improve stuttering from the research: "Covert and overt stuttering: Concepts and comparative findings" (2022) This is my attempt to summarize [this](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/artic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

Yeah ive had some crazy embarassing moments that ive forgetten myself, good advice right here it all becomes the past dont let stuff like that haunt you and hold on to the good moments....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
2 points

Can’t even tell you how many times this has happened to me. It can feel so humiliating I completely understand. But I am proud of you for getting up there and doing it despite everything in your way, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
11 points

That’s not true. It can cause depression, lack of motivation, trauma, getting bullied, not being able to find a partner, a good job. I can go on. So to answer your argument: yes, it is serious issue...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
13 points

Hey OP. If it makes you feel better during my first presentation in university infront of the whole class. I read from a paper and from the 2 paragraphs I could only say out loud 10 words which probab...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentPersonal StoriesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
23 points

It's ok, mate, shit happens sometimes. You'll get over this and in a short time that presentation will be but a memory. I know how you feel, I've been there too. Once I had to do a short presentatio...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life+1 more
postr/StutterApr 29, 2024
80 points

I just had the worst presentation in my life

I just had the worst presentation in my life It was an over 20 minute long presenation. Days before my presentation date I told my teacher about my social anxiety and that I have a terrible stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 28, 2024
20 points

The Psychological Impacts of Stuttering

The Psychological Impacts of Stuttering Stuttering can be a struggle, sometimes an unbearable one. Understandably so, it’s difficult. Other people seem to have things so easy, especially when a lot of...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
8 points

God I use to hate that back in school, dreading when my name was called for register and I had to say " yes sir/miss". I was always so embarrassed... can't give you any tips, sorry, it's just a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

Yes, but even that is not as simple as that. A new period of increased severity can again cause a relapse. It's better to first make peace with it, and THEN work on talking with lesser difficulty. Onc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride