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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2016
2 points

Do you experience actual _struggle_ moving past these places, or are you just sort of "rehearsing" what you're acquainted with? A habitual thing?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2016
1 points

Oh my god, this sounds like my worst nightmare. This past summer I worked a job that involved making a ton of phone calls, but luckily, I was in a separate office from my supervisor, so the only perso...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2016
1 points

Yep sometimes in social settings i start conversations just so nobody can put me on the spot, I'd rather talk of my own choosing than be forced to talk. Its sweet though when somebody calls you chari...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2016
1 points

Funny thing is im a stutterer and i do all those things. Sometimes we use the stutter as an excuse, personally I've made a promise to never let my stutter stop me from doing anything. This leads to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
3 points

hey man, I got married 2 years ago this summer and I definitely stuttered a couple of times. We wrote our own vows though, so I kind of changed it up to words that I knew I could say. If you don't alr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
1 points

Exactly. You're not wasting her time, it's her JOB to make sure you get what you want. Next time, when she says "barbecue sauce?" Shake your head no and try again. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
3 points

Been there, done that, feel you. I used to only order things I could say, only date girls whole names I could say, the whole nine. Never let your stutter control you, tho. Yea it didn't go your way...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
4 points

In these situations, I think the best thing is to try and work around saying the actual word. Don't worry about "wasting" anyone's time; you're the customer, you deserve to get what you're there for. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
1 points

Just stutter. It'll get better. It's all about confidence. I do the pre-sentence thing like you. I say "like" a lot before stuff or just "errr" kinda like I'm thinking. But it gets better. You just ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
-1 points

You can play the victim card to get out of situations. Speeches, answer questions in class, presentations, pretend to be mentally retarded "didn't know better", etc. Although I admit to using it a fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
2 points

I completely understand, man. I'm 33 now, but I've had a stutter my entire life. I've gone through everything you have and I empathize with your frustrations. When you say you're practicing every...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAdvice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 31, 2016
8 points

Frustrated with my stuttering

Frustrated with my stuttering Im 15 years old and from what i have read here lots of people apparently have the same problem as me. When having a conversation with people, I cant force out or speak th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
2 points

I've DMed before and my stutter is pretty severe. It helped me to have little prompts written down, and putting on a voice for the different NPCs helped too, oddly. Just have fun, basically, and the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionRoles & Performance
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2016
1 points

I don't think my stutter is too bad. It is noticeable, but only after I tell someone because I can often change the words I use to hide it. What exactly is SLP?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2016
1 points

D&D yaaaaaay! I don't mind if I'm a player, but as a DM I wonder how it'll affect the players if I'm the main one talking. I love world building so I figured I'd enjoy DMing....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2016
8 points

I think your goal of actively trying to talk to people in situations you normally wouldn't is fantastic, but I'm not sure that it will be as helpful as it could if goes hand in hand with a goal of dec...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2016
5 points

In my head no, that's why I tend to talk more in my head, but that's not a good reflex at all. In my dream I stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2016
2 points

I don't know what kind of tone I use but I know that I intonate and inflect my voice oddly to compensate my stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2016
2 points

I'm a lawyer but I'm applying for a job right now. I'm interested in litigation but for obvious reasons I hold back from following through. Thus, I am hunting for jobs in the field of corporate law, w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2016
2 points

Or when I'm in Starbucks, I want a caramel macchiato, but I can't get the words out so I end up getting iced coffee....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages