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commentr/StutterMay 22, 2024
1 points

I also hate it when people assume I am nervous when I stutter...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
9 points

i had a girl tell me that she would’ve gone out with me if i didn’t speak “weird”🤣i laugh at it now but that rlly was a low blow to my self esteem for a while...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

Idk but I started watching porn & got really into it as a addiction because I couldn't get girls as a result of stuttering. As I got older I started getting escorts because trying to get regular girls...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 19, 2024
21 points

Stuttered saying name twice within an hour

Stuttered saying name twice within an hour Just had this happen. I met a new manager today, and when he asked me my name… I couldn’t spit it out and eventually started from “My name is …”. That did t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesExperiential AssociationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
2 points

Yep. Nowadays I'm trying more and more to slow down and not try to force it out. I've found that trying to force it makes the block worse and worse. It's still a work in progress but I hope one day I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
8 points

Sadly it is, but it got stuck in my head all day. My wife even looked at me abd asked me whats wrong and I just couldnt get it out of my head. Poor soul, I pray that every human being heals from stutt...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
5 points

Exactly! This is what I went through in school. I feared the line 'introduce yourselves everyone' or 'What's your name' name name name and anything and everything that has to do with me having to say ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
9 points

mostly why i tried skipping the first days of school growing up! i was always dreading for the teacher to say “everybody should introduce themselves infront of the whole class”🤣my stomach would drop ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
3 points

Yes yes exactly! I block on my name too, and when I try to force myself out of it it’s just the most chaotic stuttering ever. It’s so awful. “Did you forget your own name?” 🤦‍♀️...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
11 points

My name Garrett, "Ga" is really hard for me. I hate when I have to introduce myself to someone. I don't stutter, but I block. I think blocking is sometimes worse, when I block I'm just standing there ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
13 points

I feel the exact same way and saying my name is always a nightmare for me. Even if I'm sick, the anxiety that I feel makes me want to avoid such situations to a great extent. I've been facing this iss...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
1 points

i (23m) finished my last exam in medical school few days ago, i graduated from high school with brilliant grades, i had no interest in any career and i found my family are excited about medical scho...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
4 points

I know Bs are hard, especially being your name. There’s the extra anxiety that comes with it like, people are going to judge you for not being able to say your name and that’s embarrassing for you. Do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
7 points

Nah I can search her name up on ig but honestly I think I do not deserve love Look being a stutterer myself I hate everyone of you,hearing someone stuttering makes me so mad and I can't bear a second...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
1 points

I was there in 1985 and it did not work for me. They did not want to discuss psycological aspects of stuttering, the emotional turmoil that must be overcome, and they must be addressed. They were afra...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2024
2 points

I tried it in my early 20s. Didn’t work for me, as I felt extremely unhappy that I had to spend so much time on something most people didn’t even know about. I was never a severe stutterer though, I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMay 12, 2024
20 points

The way people look at me when i stutter

The way people look at me when i stutter Whenever i talk and i stammer i can just tell that the people i'm talking to feel uncomfortable, they usually try to end the conversation quickly after or it j...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
5 points

It's worse when you do actually say something, you stutter and make a fool of yourself then you spend the rest of the day hating yourself and just wishing why the heck didn't I just keep my mouth shu...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMay 11, 2024
0 points

I will never feel pretty in front of him again

I will never feel pretty in front of him again Like most people, I want my crush/partner to think I’m pretty. I want to walk into a room and he thinks “she’s beautiful”. I know my crush genuinely l...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2024
1 points

Hey man, I understand you. I'm also in that phase of life where stuttering is my major focus. Every social interaction I have, I'm paying more attention to how my stuttering is than to the life of the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception