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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
3 points

I met my wife through online dating. I did have it in my profile. She had the opposite interpretation than the above reply. She liked the confidence and the fact I was comfortable enough to put it ...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

For real we are at a massive disadvantage in the dating world. especially if you have social anxiety as well (like me!!). its demotivating and depressing af...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
15 points

When I was on dating apps, I didn't put it on my bio. But I always let them know before meeting in person....

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postr/StutterJun 16, 2023
8 points

Dating advice

Dating advice On a tinder profile or something like that, do y’all usually put that you’re a stutterer or not? I feel like it would turn many people away… but maybe it has its benefits...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJun 15, 2023
5 points

The Alternate You

The Alternate You What negative traits/habits/behaviour do you think/believe stuttering has saved you from ? So let me get the ball rolling, I feel without this stutter I would have been a chronic wom...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
postr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

Maybe someone relates?

Maybe someone relates? I might never find the one. In this world of able bodied people, I will never find the one. The one who will stare into other person's eyes when I am talking. The one whose faci...

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Dating & RomanceShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
1 points

You right. This disability holds me back. It sucks. I've gotten better over the years. But It's still there. This post triggered my pass dating experiences. I guess being an asshole is a coping mechan...

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Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
1 points

He’s not the right guy for you. I know it sucks - I had a FaceTime date with a guy and he rejected me bc of it. Know that the right person will understand and love you even more because of it. 💕...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
2 points

I have a very severe stutter and have a girlfriend and go outside. It's not the stutter that is holding you back, it's how you handle it....

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
5 points

I stutter. I’ve had several partners and am now married. You can do it bro....

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
1 points

As a stuttered myself I think she clearly would appreciate the D. Do not ask her for dirty talk, but if she goes for it l, just willingly just go with it...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2023
1 points

Late thirties here! Life is quite good. My husband of 16 years is also a "covert" stutterer and had a more severe stutter as a child, so we understand each other's stutter struggles. Our son is four a...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2023
2 points

You'll find your someone, regardless of your stutter. It can make for some great pickup lines, too: "I might not be able to talk well, but my tongue game is **unbelievably** strong."...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2023
2 points

Your stutter is an asshole filter. Be glad no mad. Seriously if you could tell someone “hey I have this thing that will instantly sniff out an asshole but the only side effect is you will stutter.” I ...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

I stopped trying to date because it would always end in a "check please" as soon as they found out I stuttered. I realize there are people who don't mind but I don't want to filter through more people...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
-12 points

This is kind of pathetic you coming here for sympathy. Everyone have there preferences. And I am sure you have your deal breakers when it comes to dating. I am man that stutters. I have my fair share ...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
2 points

It sucks but that's life. Hope you find a genuine person that will accept you and love you wholly. Best of luck!...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
26 points

When I was on dating apps I had in my bio stuff “if you can’t deal with a stutter keep on keepin on” to deter those kinds of people that actually read bios...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 29, 2023
63 points

Being rejected because of your stutter sucks

Being rejected because of your stutter sucks I was talking to guy on bumble and we were planning on going out on a date so I decided to tell him that I stutter when I speak. And he immediately unmatch...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
3 points

Don't worry about it. Bit of life advice for you though. Learn to not stutter during sex or pick a safe word you can say first time everytime....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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