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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
6 points

It seems like I can only be happy in life when I'm in a good fluency phase, but stuttering always comes back and traps me in a bad loop...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 21, 2024
7 points

Bad loop

Bad loop I feel so badly stuck these days that idk how to fix it or what to do about it. It’s a constant negative loop where I’m constantly thinking about my stutter. I’m avoid interacting with new pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
1 points

I am experiencing the same issues in life (career, adulting etc). If you need someone to talk to you can DM me. I know how difficult life is with stutter/blocks. You're not alone....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
1 points

No he just gave it up. Later I thought…. We should have appealed at but at that time he was under a lot of stress with school and working a full time job with a long commute…. He just let it go....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
27 points

Yes. Theme throughout my life, whether knowing information/answers at school and not being able to take part in class, to not engaging fully in work discussions, to simple daily interactions like you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2024
2 points

for me, its definitely my stutter that causes social anxiety. I have hopes and aspirations. I have places I want to get a job at, then 5 seconds later remember I would have to talk to people and the i...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

It’s probably giving you a false safe space so you don’t have to actually interact with people you’re romantically interested in because you can just jork off instead. It’s definitely holding you back...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

Idk but I started watching porn & got really into it as a addiction because I couldn't get girls as a result of stuttering. As I got older I started getting escorts because trying to get regular girls...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
1 points

I see. Y’know i already see myself living that way. I’m losing hope. I always dream of being wealthy and have high-paying jobs but i can only stay at this minimum wage jobs. I can’t even think of myse...

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Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
2 points

Hi, yes its ruined my life in many ways, it took me well into my adult life life to find a job, I've never had a career, I've just drifted in and out of minimum wage jobs, mainly driving jobs whe...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerQuality of LifeDating & Romance+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
1 points

I stutter and have constant speech blocks. Money matters to me. It is everything....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
1 points

hi my name is Ryan. I’m 16 with a stutter. Additionally, I have anxiety. I’m fortunate enough to have supportive friends, a loving girlfriend, and family who support me no matter what. Unfortunately, ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
1 points

Hello there. I wanted to ask something. How and why is it that stuttering didn’t really totally ruined your life? As 61, you probably have a lot of experience than me. So i wanted to ask, how did the ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeEmployment & CareerDating & Romance+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2024
1 points

i (23m) finished my last exam in medical school few days ago, i graduated from high school with brilliant grades, i had no interest in any career and i found my family are excited about medical scho...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2024
0 points

Bro ur stupid as fuck , being rich don't make u fluent , using this money to fix your stutter is what will make u fluent u lazy dumb fuck , just give me portion of ur money and u will see , thats what...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
4 points

ok, wow. this teacher is bullying you and bullies don't stop unless they are made to. My fear is that there being a teacher treating you this horrible way, it is giving permission for the other stu...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
5 points

See if this makes sense for your situation, it's very difficult to give advice in complex situations like this. You said you’ve never missed a class, how many classes can you still miss? You could pla...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
2 points

Ok, know it all. I literally stated in the OP that I’m applying *everywhere*, including McDonalds. I’m not looking for a career or special type of job. There’s literally a job shortage right now, and...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
5 points

It's all about ascending the Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Normal money is at the bottom of that hierarchy because it helps you buy food, shelter, clothing etc. Once you have that, you move up the ladd...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2024
17 points

being broke and having a stutter can be more stressful. At least with Money you wont have to work and deal with the public lol...

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