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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
2 points

Well yes, but this is only applicable to stutterers who’re depersonifing… Repersonified/personified stutterers don’t have to go through this....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

My parents weren’t mocking but completely minimized and ignored my issue and the pain around it l, and eventually labeled me as “too sensitive”—I knew early on I was completely alone in my stutter. ...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalValidation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

This is literally me in every situation i am in where i am asked my name, you are not alone in this. I feel like absolute death after i finally say my name...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

Love this so much!!! As a fellow woman stutterer, thank you for sharing. It’s so needed...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 11, 2025
19 points

How I turned my stutter into a superpower

How I turned my stutter into a superpower I’ve had a stutter most of my life, and this is the first time I’ve ever really opened up about it publicly. Got interviewed recently and ended up talking abo...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

Yes, this has happened to me a lot! I’m from Puerto Rico and when I still lived on the island it happened fairly frequently (I worked customer service, so I spoke to a lot of people all day). And now ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

You're exactly right and it's similar with stuttering, it's very deep in our consciousness and is always associated with shame, fear and negativity...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

You're right, but don't worry, very few people can express themselves perfectly in language 🫶🏼 For example, I'm incredibly good at expressing myself when I write...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

That’s for sure is the best part, I only wish we were not judged based on our fluency but for our intelligence and intentions behind disfluency....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
8 points

I’m 25 and still unable to produce the R sound. I’ve gotten better at it since I was a kid but it’s still obvious to anyone who talks to me. It definitely isn’t as common as stuttering (not to say stu...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
1 points

I know, i do. other people’s opinions about me never actually bothered me; only the opinions of myself. It’s a mental war. How i perceive myself, how i look while stuttering, and what i sound like, it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
3 points

You’re right, it doesn’t have to. I know that it’ll have to try long and hard to get myself out of the effects this illness often cause. Considering going mute is the easy way out, however most of us ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
1 points

The only thing that makes you look like less of a man is this sort of self conscious thinking. Besides, there’s a good chance that they’re saying that to make you feel better about yourself because th...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

I had this idea too. But then I realised I still am capable of speaking to some extent, so I speak selectively. A quiet, calm person I have become, and speak only with kind people or when necessary. S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterMay 10, 2025
23 points

People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter

People think I’m an immigrant/foreigner because of my stutter I’m an American with a stutter, and was born and raised in the US. However, I’m of South Asian ancestry. I’m usually a very quiet person d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
10 points

Okay first off it sounds like you're using this as an excuse to not put yourself out there. Second, you're taking yourself out of the equation before ever finding out the answer. Thirdly, it's absurd ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
-12 points

But I just feel likd if i date since they're calling it cute, They might not think of me as much of a man...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 10, 2025
11 points

Am I shallow for not dating somebody that calls my stutter cute?

Am I shallow for not dating somebody that calls my stutter cute? So I (M21) have always wanted to be in a relationship and I've had chances before to be in a relationship/date because sometimes my fri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
3 points

I definitely have that type of mindset, but the fact that I can now think of someone who has a wonderful career and future while simultaneously living with a stutter just makes me realize more that I ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
1 points

SO proud of you! It's like reading this has flipped a switch in my brain. You truly have inspired me to continue seeking higher education and to not care about stuttering in front of anyone. I was sca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career