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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

that was exactly me when I was 13. mine was really bad at that age. I also hated going to speech therapy and never practiced. Therapy never really helped me. Just don't give him a hard time about it o...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
1 points

I’m also the only sibling that stutters and I have a guilt that I make my brothers look bad. In elementary I was extroverted but over the years you can say my stutters was progressive and my brain sta...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
1 points

No problem, I'll list some things I've done over the years: I used to stutter when saying my name so I made sure I looked in the mirror when I was a kid and said my name, so many times and sometim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesPreparation & RehearsalShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 13, 2024
7 points

Obsessed by my name

Obsessed by my name Hello everyone, I've been wanting to post this message for a while. I have an issue that you probably understand very well—it's stuttering on my name. It started two years ago w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
1 points

If that was the case, most stutterers would mot be sooo negative....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

I don't feel weird about disclosing it, but sometimes people's reactions are weird and it's easier to just not deal with that....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
2 points

I was often ridiculed because of my stutter, I often told myself that I'm just not trying hard enough. I always downplayed myself and hid away in shame in response to stuttering. It took me so many ye...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
1 points

They gonna think less of you subconsciously either way. Probably even more of they don't know you have this handicap....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
3 points

I try not to disclose it because I feel it subconsciously influences people to think less of you. Or at minimum feel pity for you. Sometimes it’s unavoidable, then I just take off and run away like Fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/stutteringJul 11, 2024
1 points

I’ve been where you are… sometimes my stutter would be so bad that my facial muscles and eyes would hurt from blinking and tightening the muscles. It is exhausting. Physically and emotionally. One t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
7 points

Me as well. A classmate of mine in high-school laughed and imitated me when I stuttered, when the rest of the students came into the classroom, she told them and laughed so hard. I've never felt so hu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
14 points

It's disgusting and probably plays a big role in why 64% of adult stutters have had suicidal ideation. I've had my fair share of both, and it's just so dehumanising....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSuicidal Ideation & High DistressStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
4 points

I actually think it’s the opposite. Biden’s poor debate performance has made stuttering front and central news and now I think it’s stigmatizing stutterers in a terrible way. Reducing us to a punchlin...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingPublic Awareness / MediaShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

It is a shame when he had to be - of all bad policy decisions he might've taken - to get his campaign derailed due to a stutter - I remember Trump making fun of it in 2016 . I have nothing to do with ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingPublic Awareness / MediaShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
11 points

This is a very important question, and very important in learning how to cope/heal with the condition. Most humans who speak also speak with repetitions, prolongations, flubs. George Steohanolopois ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
8 points

I totally understand you man, there's nothing like the intense feeling of shame that comes from having to pass off the phone or resort to writing or something. But suicide really isn't the answer. T...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life+1 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
50 points

Suicidal thoughts

Suicidal thoughts I’m a 28 year old male. I’ve stuttered my entire life and it makes life difficult. Yesterday I was having issues with my insurance and had to be on the phone with them while they h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
8 points

I totally understand. Even my fairly minor and random stutter has limited me. There's always my fear of people thinking I'm fluent and then openly stuttering. Sometimes people think I'm Joking because...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
2 points

Me too and I feel guilty I feel like I’m the one who should feel bad or weird for just a simple disability that I can’t control...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2024
1 points

n out of 2 siblings we both stutter. 🙃 as a kid it was always embarrasment. we conciously never went to the same school...😀...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment